Which metro out of DFW,Houston,San Antonio, and Austin would have best dating scene?

[C24L]

Originally Posted by Saintmarks

Since you are the OP and you have brought your faith and prayer life into this, is it time to humbly ask God to bring the specific girl he has for you OF HIS CHOOSING into your life? Maybe your specific list is limiting the hand of God in your life. Perhaps he has someone perfect for you but you can't see her because of your list... if it is really specific in terms of looks, family, size, personality traits or any other "wants" on your list. Maybe that "perfect girl" in your mind is not a good match for you. If you share the same type of Christianity that I lead (and I think you do) can you not let go and let God in this? Can you trust that he knows better than you know what mate is the best for you?

Perhaps I am not reading your statement above about being "specific." And again, would not get this personal on matters of one's spiritual walk and prayer life on a forum like this if you didn't go there first. All the best, C2, just said a prayer for you!

Hi Saintmarks.....I have been told that before.I just want to make sure im happy because marriage is "till death do us part."I really appreciate all your kind words.I also am very thankful for your prayer.

[ragnarkar]

Originally Posted by Saintmarks

Since you are the OP and you have brought your faith and prayer life into this, is it time to humbly ask God to bring the specific girl he has for you OF HIS CHOOSING into your life? Maybe your specific list is limiting the hand of God in your life. Perhaps he has someone perfect for you but you can't see her because of your list... if it is really specific in terms of looks, family, size, personality traits or any other "wants" on your list. Maybe that "perfect girl" in your mind is not a good match for you. If you share the same type of Christianity that I lead (and I think you do) can you not let go and let God in this? Can you trust that he knows better than you know what mate is the best for you?

Perhaps I am not reading your statement above about being "specific." And again, would not get this personal on matters of one's spiritual walk and prayer life on a forum like this if you didn't go there first. All the best, C2, just said a prayer for you!

Most likely God told the OP that he needs to get off of his butt and do the hard work of finding that special woman who will spend the rest of their lives together rather than being handed off of a silver platter.

[C24L]

Originally Posted by ragnarkar

Most likely God told the OP that he needs to get off of his butt and do the hard work of finding that special woman who will spend the rest of their lives together rather than being handed off of a silver platter.

well i am trying to get my career goin....i have been applying for jobs and trying to get my self-employment off the ground too here in Midland so i need to get my financial house in order before i get married.I guess God will send her my way when he thinks im ready

[RJ312]

Originally Posted by C24L

well i am trying to get my career goin....i have been applying for jobs and trying to get my self-employment off the ground too here in Midland so i need to get my financial house in order before i get married.I guess God will send her my way when he thinks im ready

Are you currently unemployed? That will making finding a longer term girlfriend more difficult.

Do you take initiative in making approaches? What are your go to venues for approaching women?

[C24L]

Originally Posted by RJ312

Are you currently unemployed? That will making finding a longer term girlfriend more difficult.

Do you take initiative in making approaches? What are your go to venues for approaching women?

Yes, I do take initiative.Church.

[MrJester]

Just curious, where are the tomboys? You know, the geek girls who hang out with guys, wear hoodies/sweatpants everyday, hate makeup, and are in some male dominated field like engineering?