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So basically educated and ambitious women are not seen as desirable to men their own age. I guess they might be saying the general rule of thumb is that to be more desirable a women needs to be prettier, younger and more submissive/weaker (in terms of money, education and power)? Are you not glad you asked for their opinion now lol !
I think that's the difference between men in Toronto and, for example men in New York and men in London. The latter appreciate ambitious, independent women and aren't threatened by them. perhaps that's why my dating life went from vibrant and exciting to 0 after moving here.
Maybe, but it also could be just random encounters. Where do you go out when you are in Toronto? Toronto is also a lot less population dense then both of these cities. Karasmatic mentioned this too before, but sometimes here you need an in ex to know someone in the group to get in to the mix. I do notice that here to some extent people either know each other from school, work or Church or some other circle. Not as many people observed to be out and about on their own. They usually travel in packs (yup.. even the men). I could be wrong about this, but it is just my opinion. You also might try frequenting different areas in the city. Very different vibes in different areas ex hipster Toronto vs. Stick up my xxx King and Front area ( just sort of joking about that last part :P).
Maybe, but it also could be just random encounters. Where do you go out when you are in Toronto? Toronto is also a lot less population dense then both of these cities. Karasmatic mentioned this too before, but sometimes here you need an in ex to know someone in the group to get in to the mix. I do notice that here to some extent people either know each other from school, work or Church or some other circle. Not as many people observed to be out and about on their own. They usually travel in packs (yup.. even the men). I could be wrong about this, but it is just my opinion. You also might try frequenting different areas in the city. Very different vibes in different areas ex hipster Toronto vs. Stick up my xxx King and Front area ( just sort of joking about that last part :P).
I go out on King St West, the Beaches, Queen West, College etc. I used to go to Brassai and 2katz, I also have membership in The Spoke and Soho House.
Dating wise I was on Tinder, OKCupid and Plenty of Fish. I was in Boston last week and I was asked for a number as soon as I pretty much stepped out of the airport. Following night a guy I met in the store took me out for drinks and I slept with him. He wants to keep in touch even though I have since came back to Toronto. I can't even find words to describe the difference.
I think that's the difference between men in Toronto and, for example men in New York and men in London. The latter appreciate ambitious, independent women and aren't threatened by them. perhaps that's why my dating life went from vibrant and exciting to 0 after moving here.
Toronto probably just sucks for 30 year old dating.
I go out on King St West, the Beaches, Queen West, College etc. I used to go to Brassai and 2katz, I also have membership in The Spoke and Soho House.
Dating wise I was on Tinder, OKCupid and Plenty of Fish. I was in Boston last week and I was asked for a number as soon as I pretty much stepped out of the airport. Following night a guy I met in the store took me out for drinks and I slept with him. He wants to keep in touch even though I have since came back to Toronto. I can't even find words to describe the difference.
I do believe america is a more promiscuous society. People here are uptight about sex for the most part. Even the young ones. If you have experience with Americans it's definitely night and day.
I go out on King St West, the Beaches, Queen West, College etc. I used to go to Brassai and 2katz, I also have membership in The Spoke and Soho House.
Dating wise I was on Tinder, OKCupid and Plenty of Fish. I was in Boston last week and I was asked for a number as soon as I pretty much stepped out of the airport. Following night a guy I met in the store took me out for drinks and I slept with him. He wants to keep in touch even though I have since came back to Toronto. I can't even find words to describe the difference.
That is funny ... what a different indeed. I got no answer for that one lol.
That is funny ... what a different indeed. I got no answer for that one lol.
Let me tell you what happened to my friend last night. He and few other guys were having drinks on College. They are in their mid-late 20s, my friend is from Uk, other guys were Australian.
They got a bit drunk and noticed few girls sitting on the other side of tha bar, so one of the Ozzie guys grabbed a candle, went up to the girls and said to them: " Hey girls, you wanna find out what I can do with my mouth?" and when they looked at him a bit weirded out he pouted and blew a candle. They started laughing.
When he came back to his chair, a barman, who was watching the whole thing, came up to him and gave him a speech about how his behaviour was inappropriate.
Let me tell you what happened to my friend last night. He and few other guys were having drinks on College. They are in their mid-late 20s, my friend is from Uk, other guys were Australian.
They got a bit drunk and noticed few girls sitting on the other side of tha bar, so one of the Ozzie guys grabbed a candle, went up to the girls and said to them: " Hey girls, you wanna find out what I can do with my mouth?" and when they looked at him a bit weirded out he pouted and blew a candle. They started laughing.
When he came back to his chair, a barman, who was watching the whole thing, came up to him and gave him a speech about how his behaviour was inappropriate.
What do you think about that?
An absolute diabolical liberty!!!! Personally I think everyone's entitled to have a laugh and joke when on a night out.
I think I'd be deported with in a week LOL
Btw I've not really read many threads about Canada but this one I'm hooked on its terrific
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Toronto, but where in Toronto ...
