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Originally Posted by fusion2
I have honestly never been in a situation whereby I felt I needed to ride with a stranger and I've never been asked. In your cases I think the majority were probably just guys being nice and feeling sorry for you. It is sad but you always have to take into account that it only takes one time. You are put into an extremely vulnerable position - they have the power when you accept a ride from a stranger, especially as a woman.
Another thing is, these days practically everyone has a mobile with data and an uber driver is almost always only a few minutes away so i'd stick with that personally. For me this isn't a Toronto thing either - it would apply practically anywhere.
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The entire situation felt odd to me.
Please note as a teenager and in my 20s I use to get followed home as many girls did by crazy people with no boundaries back when living around Jane and Steeles. Back in the day when there were less cameras everywhere and not as many people has cell phones.
It is kind of strangle to me to think I am not capable of walking home or waiting on a bus? So for me it more often then not raised a red flag. Also makes me wonder why the hell they are not scared of me? For all they know I could a totally but case.
I sadly am one of those people that are always questioning everyone else's intentions and motives and has watched way to many crime shows and horror movies to just be jumping in to cars with strangers.
So drivers please be mindful that even though your intentions are good pulling over to offer a ride to someone walking unless they are in a state of emergency can be very intimidating and worrisome so best not to offer. It is just not a safe practice to push. Frankly it is scary and uncomfortable.
Even as a grown adult having a car pull over towards me when walking is scary. Living in a city kids are taught from very young to be fearful of being approached by strangers. Being approached by a stranger is a vehicle is top of the list of red flag situations. So just don't go there. Thanks but no thanks.