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Guys also have the "bad girl" infatuation/fantasy as well - i.e. Tanya Harding's recent marriage - no, she's not in prison or death row, but still............
I wonder-------if those male guys in prison suddenly/unexpectedly got released-------how many weeks do you think they would stay with their woman who admired them ?
I say weeks because once her bank account is drained, he will move on to greener pastures.
He now has freedom-----freedom to choose someone else.
He didn't have that freedom while in prison and had to take whatever came his way.
Not everyone in jail/prison is a terrible person. Many just made really bad judgment call mistakes. But for a woman to be remotely interested in a murderer or a habitual criminal is just beyond me. The whole thing is crazy.
Not everyone in jail/prison is a terrible person. Many just made really bad judgment call mistakes. But for a woman to be remotely interested in a murderer or a habitual criminal is just beyond me. The whole thing is crazy.
I disagree.
A person sentenced to jail-------maybe
A person sentenced to prison----No
I am a male and for the life of me I do not comprehend this.
I cannot tell you of the number of women I know that are totally fascinated with reading about, watching TV shows about, talking about, etc. serial killers, criminals, spousal murderers, etc. I'm talking a major obsession with some of the biggest scum in the history of society.
I just don't get it. They seem like they have a major infatuation with these guys. I'm not kidding.
I recently heard a psychologist on tv using JVS as an example and stating that it's because it's the closest to a celebrity they can get. They know they will never be able to get Jesse James, for example, so they settle for trying to woo a serial killer!
I saw on TV the other day how J.Van Der Sloot was getting marriage proposals left and right since he's been incarcerated. And, on TV the other night, it showed the Night Stalker getting a proposal and marrying a magazine editor while he was in prison for his horrible crimes.
Why are these women doing it? Attraction to the ultimate "bad boy"? Unavailability/safety of marrying a criminal (don't have to worry about being cheated on or picking up their dirty socks, etc.) Mental Illness? Other reasons?
Heck, all that - and then some. Some women are desperate for a man. Also, some might think it's especially "romantic" to marry a guy behind bars. It's a "special" relationship. He'll be faithful to her (???), and she'll wait for him. She'll be his "savior". When (if) he gets out, they'll live "happily ever after."
The fantasy may go something like this:
After the release:
Woman: "See, told you I'd wait for you, honey."
Man: "I would have died without you, sweetheart. Thank you SO MUCH for waiting for me. I love you SO MUCH for that. You are my life."
Woman: (near tears) "And you're mine. We'll ALWAYS be together."
Heck, all that - and then some. Some women are desperate for a man. Also, some might think it's especially "romantic" to marry a guy behind bars. It's a "special" relationship. He'll be faithful to her (???), and she'll wait for him. She'll be his "savior". When (if) he gets out, they'll live "happily ever after."
The fantasy may go something like this:
After the release:
Woman: "See, told you I'd wait for you, honey."
Man: "I would have died without you, sweetheart. Thank you SO MUCH for waiting for me. I love you SO MUCH for that. You are my life."
Woman: (near tears) "And you're mine. We'll ALWAYS be together."
please ...
You forgot to add:
Man: "I just need the rest of your money and there is zero chance I will be around here 1 week after it's gone."
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