I see no contradiction.
My relatives may reincarnate in 80 years when all their
loved ones on earth are on the Other Side themselves.
There is no time or sense of time on the Other Side, as has been described
innumerable times in NDEs.
Ah, here, from Natalie Sudman's book,"Application of Impossible Things"
After being blown up in Irag...
"I retreated to a deep place...where I could recuperate...this state lasted an equivalent
of centuries within less than a moment."
She had vast experiences with a group she called a Gathering...vast...yet
when she came back into her body...the vehicle was still rolling!!
She has the highest IQ of any NDE person I have read.
I highly recommend her book.