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I'd stick with the tried and true--some champagne, glasses, sparkling water for non-drinkers, some fine chocolates and perhaps some nuts or something similar. Lush towels, fine linens, and cozy bathrobes would be a bonus if not provided currently.
I wasn't expecting that people might be upset by fuzzy handcuffs included in a gift basket, especially if they were brand new. People are really uptight these days.
Like I said, the folks we're catering to are more alternative lifestyle bohemians rather than middle American white bread. It would have cracked us up to find something silly sexy in our gift basket.
What do I know? We won't even assume marriages are even consummated, the way some folks act.
Like I said, the folks we're catering to are more alternative lifestyle bohemians rather than middle American white bread. It would have cracked us up to find something silly sexy in our gift basket.
1) How do you know you're ONLY going to get "alternative lifestyle bohemians"? I mean ... is that guaranteed? If he's going to operate a business, he will advertise, and he won't always know the sexual proclivities of his clientele.
2) I live in the Mid-South, or what many cast off as "middle America," but I'm far from white bread or a prude. I just prefer to choose my own sex accessories and don't expect that kind of thing to be hinted at or suggested by the owner of a business I'm dealing with. There are hotels that specifically advertise erotic features, so it would be a little strange to see something unexpected at a place that didn't even hint at it.
IDK he could try it and see what kind of feedback he gets, but you've already done one sample size and been surprised by the results. It's the kind of risk business owners deal with every day.
If it's not something that's necessary to the business model, though, why take a chance on negative reviews that could tarnish an otherwise stellar experience?
1) How do you know you're ONLY going to get "alternative lifestyle bohemians"? I mean ... is that guaranteed? If he's going to operate a business, he will advertise, and he won't always know the sexual proclivities of his clientele.
2) I live in the Mid-South, or what many cast off as "middle America," but I'm far from white bread or a prude. I just prefer to choose my own sex accessories and don't expect that kind of thing to be hinted at or suggested by the owner of a business I'm dealing with. There are hotels that specifically advertise erotic features, so it would be a little strange to see something unexpected at a place that didn't even hint at it.
IDK he could try it and see what kind of feedback he gets, but you've already done one sample size and been surprised by the results. It's the kind of risk business owners deal with every day.
If it's not something that's necessary to the business model, though, why take a chance on negative reviews that could tarnish an otherwise stellar experience?
This is why I asked. It was my idea, LOL. I have the greatest respect for your opinion and know you, of all of the respondents, "got" it.
But yeah, I was expecting several great and amusing ideas.
Since it's not necessary, then we don't need to do anything more.
Sorry, but even anything mildly kinky or sexy would kind of gross me out. I would wonder if they were used previously. I'm also fairly certain that the newly married couple is quite able to provide anything like that themselves if they wish.
I'd stick with the tried and true--some champagne, glasses, sparkling water for non-drinkers, some fine chocolates and perhaps some nuts or something similar. Lush towels, fine linens, and cozy bathrobes would be a bonus if not provided currently.
I agree. I would not expect sex toys, unless it had been advertised, it makes it seem sleazy, no matter how good the intent.
1) How do you know you're ONLY going to get "alternative lifestyle bohemians"? I mean ... is that guaranteed? If he's going to operate a business, he will advertise, and he won't always know the sexual proclivities of his clientele.
2) I live in the Mid-South, or what many cast off as "middle America," but I'm far from white bread or a prude. I just prefer to choose my own sex accessories and don't expect that kind of thing to be hinted at or suggested by the owner of a business I'm dealing with. There are hotels that specifically advertise erotic features, so it would be a little strange to see something unexpected at a place that didn't even hint at it.
IDK he could try it and see what kind of feedback he gets, but you've already done one sample size and been surprised by the results. It's the kind of risk business owners deal with every day.
If it's not something that's necessary to the business model, though, why take a chance on negative reviews that could tarnish an otherwise stellar experience?
Totally agree with all of this, and it's why I suggested only going with it if you're specifically catering to that crowd.
If you do decide to provide handcuffs, make sure you also provide a bed that'll accomodate them.
I wasn't expecting that people might be upset by fuzzy handcuffs included in a gift basket, especially if they were brand new. People are really uptight these days.
Like I said, the folks we're catering to are more alternative lifestyle bohemians rather than middle American white bread. It would have cracked us up to find something silly sexy in our gift basket.
What do I know? We won't even assume marriages are even consummated, the way some folks act.
You asked. People answered.
You can always do whatever you want, and all the rest of us fuddy duddies can jump in the lake if that's what you want.
Maybe all your alternative-lifestyle and bohemian friends will think it's an awesome idea. Try it and see.
But maybe not get so defensive and insulting when you ask for advice, and then you get it.
But maybe not get so defensive and insulting when you ask for advice, and then you get it.
Yep. And I'd add that "lovely country house" is fairly dissonant with "fuzzy handcuffs," and most of us replied accordingly.
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