It's a wonderful town, great for the family with loads of things for the children. I'm fairly new myself, about 3 years now. My girls are a bit older but it's a great place for families. There are a number of town sponsored events as well. We moved from Queens but I grew up in Brooklyn. I don't know of any stay at home Dads groups but give Google a shot.
Take a look at the library web site to learn more about events. The library is wonderful, my girls love it, I take them every Saturday morning after a visit to the Farmers market. There are loads of things to get involved in just ask and don't be afraid to get active in something. It depends what you like, for example my wife is on the Chappaqua Garden club (
Chappaqua Garden Club ) and she is active in our church. Some recent town sponsored events are the summer concert series (
Recreation & Parks - Town of New Castle, New York ) and Millwood outdoor movies (
First Annual )
Schools are awesome - I've had Teachers e-mail and call me at home to let me know about an area in which my daughter was struggling. I haven't seen any extra pressure. I'm not particularly artistic but both of my children have what I would consider very good arts in school (certainly better than NYC schools) and one daughter has been in two plays that were very well done and professional.
Here is a sample from the Chappaqua Library Event page for Tuesday and Wednesday
- 10AM - All Day - great for a hot day, my girls have gone and they loved it lots of materials
- 11AM - Childrens Short films
- 4 PM - Butterfly Bonanza
Wednesday
9:30 AM Movers & Shakers story time
10:30 AM - Nursery Rhyme Time
11:30 AM - All Together Now story time
4:00 PM - Boomerangs
When you child gets older, the library has a summer reading club, they get their photo taken and posted in the Children's section, oh and they get a goodie bag.
Link to library events page
Chappaqua Library... - July 2013 | Calendar
Other good web pages
Chappaqua-Mount Kisco, NY Patch - Local news, community, sports, shopping, restaurants, things to do - good local news and events
The Chappaqua Daily Voice - more local news and events
Chappaqua - Pleasantville - Mt Kisco : Macaroni Kid
Home - Town of New Castle, New York - Town web site
Inside Chappaqua Magazine — The Magazine for New Castle and Beyond - Town magazine
I'm happy to help answer any other questions you may have or to provide more detail.
Len