Response to climate is definitely a personal matter!! And obviously we need to respect our personal needs.
We have to allow time to acclimate
physically. Adjustment to a new climate takes time--
months. And we have to consider medical issues, like whether we're on some
medicine with side effects that impact body comfort. Or whether we have a physical
condition that's aggravated by a certain kind of climate. And we have to consider our past
experience as well--NC is physically cold if you're coming from Arizona, but not if you're coming from Alaska.
We also have to ponder
mental issues, like whether warm feels good because we spent an unhappy childhood in the cold (or vice versa). We have to think about personal preferences--do we truly enjoy the cold? or truly enjoy heat? and do we find either one intolerable? Are we punishing ourselves in some inhospitable climate because we convince ourselves it will be "good" for us? Are we there to escape someone? to escape ourselves? Are we in that climate because we need to be in that climate's
location in order to
impress ourselves or others? Are we there, in other words, only because we're basically insecure?
At the other end of the spectrum, are we there in that climate simply because of
practical issues? Are we there because we're just
there and have never given a
thought to
why we're there as far as climate is concerned? Did we take a new job that happened to be there? Or are we responding to the need of a family member and moving to that climate for him or her? In other words, are we
there in that climate simply because life
threw us there??
I treasure the memory of my sweet departed father, who went camping with us once in the mountains an hour's drive east of San Diego (in Cuyamaca State Park). The whole family enjoyed the campfire that night because the winter air was cold. But we were all, including Mother, totally comfortable and having a wonderful time, dancing around the campfire.
Suddenly we missed Dad. We searched and found him all by himself in the car, engine running, heater at full blast, trying to thaw out his 65-year-old bones! He laughed a lot and carried it off beautifully, but we could see that he was
miserable in our mild San Diego mountain winter. We left the following morning.
Was it the medication (for thyroid) that Dad was taking?? Or was it that he was used to very cold but relatively dry winters in PA, while San Diego's winters are mild but
damp (because of its proximity to the ocean)?? That may be. We've heard others say this--that you can be warm in New England and cold in San Diego because of the
dampness there. But who really knows?? Have there been scientific studies conducted on the subject???
As I said, response to climate is definitely a personal matter, and there's no need to apologize about it or even try to understand it, in my opinion. Response to climate--and
weather, by the way--just IS!!
Obviously we need to
accept what is. And choose to settle (purchase/rent) in an area that meets OUR very special and worthy needs! and have the REST of the world come and visit US!!
Me?? I'm staying right HERE (sneeze) in WNC even though I hear a lot (sneeze) about allergies here. But I'm one of the lucky ones (sneeze). I happen to remember (sneeze) that I sneezed a lot in San Diego, too!!!!
JAN