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I don't know which sub-forum to put this question into, so sorry if this isn't the right place. Mods, feel free to move this if it's better suited for another sub-forum.
I have an extremely rare name - with my first name only and the city I live, anyone can use the internet or a public records search to find where I live. I’m the only person who has my name in the country so anyone with my first and last name can find out what city I currently live in and tons of other info.
What are the potential drawbacks of changing my name to something very common?
Some add'l info:
-I've been a victim of stalking and I want to prevent future occurrences.
-I changed my name once before, when I was 18, but that was before I had trusts and properties, etc, so I know it will be more complicated this time around.
-I'm technically financially independent but I will probably want to work a regular job again within the next few years. I suppose having a generic name could be a slight disadvantage (planning on doing something entrepreunerial or computer programming related, so online freelance-y type of stuff). On the other hand, if I am going to change my name, I figure I should do it now before launching a new career.
-I have explored a lot of other ways of protecting my privacy: I regularly request removal of my info from the sites that aggregate it, I use a nickname these days so that the only people who know my legal name are health care providers and anyone else who has to see official documentation. Still, it's a hassle, and I'd prefer that anyone who had or will have my legal name to not be able to track me down easily. With a generic name, I will get lost in a sea of "Jane Doe"s and it'll be hard for someone to know which of them is me. I've thoroughly researched this from various books on privacy.