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Old 07-25-2013, 07:40 PM
 
Location: Duluth, Minnesota, USA
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Can a stranger just walk into a bar or pub or teahouse or other social place and strike up a conversation with somebody in your country? Or do people tend more to their own social groups?

I went to Spain about five years ago and do not know why it is considered a nightlife mecca by tourist guides; as a solo tourist, I was virtually left to my own at crowded bares while the natives enjoyed themselves. This occurred in San Sebastian, Tarifa, Madrid, and perhaps other cities. I reported my observations on a forum frequented by many Spaniards and they agreed with my observations.

On the other hand, when I arrived in Morocco, I was constantly being greeted and welcomed to the country, not only by touts but also by friendly locals. In the Meknes medina, I was sat down for an impromptu tea and cookies session with a local family. In Marrakesh, I was invited over to a local's house for breakfast and to catch up on my sorely needed sleep the bus ride the night before deprived me of...and the home was opulent, the toilets were Western, and the spare bed was comfortable!

What's the situation in your country?
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Old 07-25-2013, 08:33 PM
 
Location: Seville, Spain
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Having so many people did not realize you were alone. Spanish people are very sociable, come again and check
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Old 07-25-2013, 09:07 PM
 
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Can a stranger just walk into a bar or pub or teahouse or other social place and strike up a conversation with somebody in your country? Or do people tend more to their own social groups?

I went to Spain about five years ago and do not know why it is considered a nightlife mecca by tourist guides; as a solo tourist, I was virtually left to my own at crowded bares while the natives enjoyed themselves. This occurred in San Sebastian, Tarifa, Madrid, and perhaps other cities. I reported my observations on a forum frequented by many Spaniards and they agreed with my observations.

On the other hand, when I arrived in Morocco, I was constantly being greeted and welcomed to the country, not only by touts but also by friendly locals. In the Meknes medina, I was sat down for an impromptu tea and cookies session with a local family. In Marrakesh, I was invited over to a local's house for breakfast and to catch up on my sorely needed sleep the bus ride the night before deprived me of...and the home was opulent, the toilets were Western, and the spare bed was comfortable!

What's the situation in your country?
Ireland is very friendly. You can strike up conversations anywhere. Australia is a friendly place as well. These are the two countries I know the best but I'm sure there are many places. I know lots of people that have been to the US and have reported them to be very friendly. If you are friendly and warm people usually respond in kind.
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Old 07-25-2013, 09:22 PM
 
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Here are some articles about the friendliest countries.

Top 10: Friendly Countries - AskMen
Friendliest country in the world named
http://www.lonelyplanet.com/ireland/...articles/39876
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Old 07-27-2013, 02:58 AM
 
Location: Finland
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It can happen here when people are drunk but rarely otherwise (in my experience).
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Old 07-27-2013, 03:17 AM
 
Location: Melbourne, Australia
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It can happen here when people are drunk but rarely otherwise (in my experience).
I've heard Finland is the most reserved country in the world.

I'd say India, the Middle East and parts of Africa would be up there. Lowest might be Western and Northern Europe, Japan, Canada.
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Old 07-27-2013, 06:02 AM
 
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Ireland is very friendly. You can strike up conversations anywhere. Australia is a friendly place as well. These are the two countries I know the best but I'm sure there are many places. I know lots of people that have been to the US and have reported them to be very friendly. If you are friendly and warm people usually respond in kind.

irish people will shoot the breeze and engage in casual conversation with anyone - anywhere but you may not know the same person all that well ten years later

we are masters and saying lots but telling you nothing
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Old 07-27-2013, 04:38 PM
 
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I know that it is possible in Israel.
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