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Old 04-17-2015, 07:53 PM
 
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Americans considering they speak English.
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Old 04-17-2015, 07:55 PM
 
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Brits are stereotype as cold and distant, yet a lot of Brits, for some reason, had no problem talking to me in line at the grocery store or whatever . This topic is one of many that attempts to use stereotypes to justify someone's views
English people are cold though. Where I live everyone talks to strangers, we don't have a full blown conversation but we will smile and say do they like the plate we are buying, for example. I find city English people avoid eye contact at every opportunity and act like you'vs asked them for their inheritance when you even say hello..


How dare I have the audacity to speak...
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Old 04-17-2015, 08:43 PM
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You're concentrating on the superficial. OP , from my point of view, was actually asking about developing friendships, not the ease of making small talk or casual conversation with people you don't intend on seeing again
I was also thinking about acquaintances.
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Old 04-17-2015, 09:47 PM
 
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English people are cold though. Where I live everyone talks to strangers, we don't have a full blown conversation but we will smile and say do they like the plate we are buying, for example. I find city English people avoid eye contact at every opportunity and act like you'vs asked them for their inheritance when you even say hello..


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No English people aren't cold. Stop your stereotyping. I've lived in England before (and not in London or B'ham or Manc) and you views are 100% based on stereotypes and probably on London if I had to venture a guess. I am not a cold person, and neither is my English wife, and we don't feel the need to have to say hi to everybody.

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I was also thinking about acquaintances.
Kinda falls into the category I was describing
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Old 04-18-2015, 05:01 AM
 
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No English people aren't cold. Stop your stereotyping. I've lived in England before (and not in London or B'ham or Manc) and you views are 100% based on stereotypes and probably on London if I had to venture a guess. I am not a cold person, and neither is my English wife, and we don't feel the need to have to say hi to everybody.



Kinda falls into the category I was describing
I didn't say they were cold, I said they were cold to approach.
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Old 04-18-2015, 05:47 AM
 
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Brits are stereotype as cold and distant, yet a lot of Brits, for some reason, had no problem talking to me in line at the grocery store or whatever . This topic is one of many that attempts to use stereotypes to justify someone's views

having lived in the UK, I've first hand experienced how cold and distant they can be, they keep to themselves and don't welcome outsiders

if your not born into that society than your always going to be an outsider, perhaps ironic that they couldn't tell I wasn't British, until I revealed my name

British society in my opinion is narrow-minded, judgmental and the working class has some kind of 'yob culture' if you understand what I mean by that
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Old 04-18-2015, 05:51 AM
 
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Even though I am not English I have been there tons of times and I live in a similar country. I would know more than him..
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Old 04-18-2015, 11:03 AM
 
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There are many countries with a culture of talking to strangers, including foreigners. There are also many countries without such culture.
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Old 04-18-2015, 12:23 PM
 
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The OP's failed premise is that the word "friend" has the same connotations in all cultures.
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Old 04-19-2015, 10:33 PM
 
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The same. People are people everywhere. Most friendly people are eager to be friendly with other friendly people.

yeah, that
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