Hard Love
Posted 11-23-2008 at 04:13 AM by firecracker67
I am having trouble dealing with the fact that I had to kick my daughter and her two kids along with her dead beat boyfriend out of my house. They would not help or pay any rent and I had lost my job. She totally disrespected me and started trying to tell me what was acceptable to them in my own home. Now she won't let me see my grandchilren that I helped raise all on my own. am I wrong to kick her out?
Dazed and confused
Dazed and confused
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I'm sure there are other members with a situation like your own. Happy Sunday!Posted 11-23-2008 at 04:49 AM by 2goldens
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Because of the heat of the moment are emotions tend to get in the way, i dont believe u did wrong by kicking them out but i do think there is always a better way to do it. But sometimes that dont always happen we dont live in a perfect world. The good thing is she and her family will have to rely on each other. That only makes them stronger. And that has to happen so that ur daugther can grow up, and see for herself that life is not easy and that u must appreciate anyone who tries to help. They may find other family members to help them but thats still not allowing them to grow up. So then she will not learn anything. Theres a time we have to let our children grow up even if that means u dont see ur grandchild. If she uses that against u each time then she will do it again. When u talk to her always love her speck to her in a low voice remind her that u love her but just like she will demand respect from her daughter u need to be respected too. That things dont come easy just cause ur her mom that u struggle also. Remember ur daughter has her family and her life is full u have to make a full life for yourself pray for her ask GOD to soften her heart towards you. And to help her then trust in him to do it. Have faith that he will work things out and in no time u will have ur grandchild on ur laps! And a daughter that will respect u! God Bless you and ur family. tleaderPosted 11-23-2008 at 11:24 PM by tleader
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slap that *****Posted 12-26-2008 at 09:47 AM by bumpfister
