Know it All? Based Upon...What, Exactly?
Posted 08-24-2017 at 10:27 AM by Blondebaerde
Every GF I've ever had who fancies herself an armchair psychologist who knows "better than me" how to run...well, hell: just about everything? Cute and funny first few times, before I realize with dawning horror it's behavior they pretty much all share and goes along with the rest.
Or, worse, the domineering guy who controls you not out of any claim to special knowlege, but more that "she needs a firm hand" or similar? I've behaved that way, a (very) few times to partciularly dumb bunny GFs, but I'm wise enough to cut it out when it offends. Most guys aren't. They're also God's gift to (everything) and when shown otherwise, simply ignore the facts.
If you can live with the above in your relationships, have at it. Best friend is going through this right now, past eight months, with his GF of not-quite two years who seems to have special insight into why she is right, and he is wrong. And he and I chuckle: yeah, we're the "wrong" people w/million dollar homes and 97% income tech senior to exec management jobs in the competitive Seattle area.
It doesn't matter, I'm sure Gates' wife jams him for why he is wrong all the time, too. Ditto Zuckerberg. I could be the King of Siam an I'd get that guff from one of the concubines.
The "solution" is to ignore it, walk away, or remove that influence from your presence on a regular basis. Easier said than done, I'm not dumb, but that's also why I am typically single vast portion of my life. In contrast to 99% of others who are either in "relationships" or doing everything humanly possible to partner up, ASAP. LOL.
Answer: "Choose Again."
Or, worse, the domineering guy who controls you not out of any claim to special knowlege, but more that "she needs a firm hand" or similar? I've behaved that way, a (very) few times to partciularly dumb bunny GFs, but I'm wise enough to cut it out when it offends. Most guys aren't. They're also God's gift to (everything) and when shown otherwise, simply ignore the facts.
If you can live with the above in your relationships, have at it. Best friend is going through this right now, past eight months, with his GF of not-quite two years who seems to have special insight into why she is right, and he is wrong. And he and I chuckle: yeah, we're the "wrong" people w/million dollar homes and 97% income tech senior to exec management jobs in the competitive Seattle area.
It doesn't matter, I'm sure Gates' wife jams him for why he is wrong all the time, too. Ditto Zuckerberg. I could be the King of Siam an I'd get that guff from one of the concubines.
The "solution" is to ignore it, walk away, or remove that influence from your presence on a regular basis. Easier said than done, I'm not dumb, but that's also why I am typically single vast portion of my life. In contrast to 99% of others who are either in "relationships" or doing everything humanly possible to partner up, ASAP. LOL.
Answer: "Choose Again."
