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Old 12-05-2015, 07:55 AM
 
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In a case like this where I have multiple gifts,I like to get individual bags of trail mix for $4 or so like they sell at Target. It's healthy. I put it in a colored cellophane bag or wrap it and put a quick bow on it.

I like the socks idea too.
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Old 12-05-2015, 08:22 AM
 
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I received this beautiful pashmina scarf one year but that was over the top. The patients father was mega rich and he came in with boxes of them two years in a row at Christmas time. He also brought trays full of fabulous Greek pastries all the time. His daughter was with us for over a year an unfortunately left this planet after a hard fight. We've had family members bring in all kinds of food, and large boxes of chocolates. Those edible arrangements were nice but they don't feed a lot of people and I always missed having a piece. It's difficult to coordinate everyone you like receiving a gift so a small token like a small box of chocolates is nice for that special health care worker you've connected with. Otherwise bring something for the whole staff on two consecutive weekends. Most health care workers work every other weekend.
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Old 12-05-2015, 09:37 AM
 
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Many healthcare facilities forbid staff from taking gifts from patients and or families. I work in a hospital and when a family member tried to give me money or a gift, I would tell them to instead buy the staff some donuts or something like that to show their appreciation. We usually write on top of the box of food that it's from the family of said patient. As a former night shift nurse, I always appreciated when there was a box for day shift and one for night shift. That let me and the other nurses know that the family members didn't forget us.

Don't stress yourself out, just get 2 large boxes of baked goods and label one for day shift and one for night shift and get one card and write your appreciation if you want and call it a day. Believe it or not, just being respectful and saying thank you is the best present that you could give the staff.
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Old 12-05-2015, 10:54 AM
 
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I suspect that for a CNA a $5 target gift card would be way more useful than a pair of socks. Not that the thought isn't nice, but for such poorly paid people, that time of year can be very difficult. If they have kids the $5 could be used for their gift, or for some sort of food treat which, as a parent, is the most important thing at Christmas. (or maybe they would use it to fill a prescription, life on minimum wage is very difficult).
If you don't want to give the socks, fine by me. Do whatever floats your boat.

I am not a big fan of the gift cards. Who knows where they shop and they are easy to lose. I like crisp bills. Much easier for folks to use.

Those whose hearts go out to the poorly paid people are free to give twenty dollar bills or even a couple of them. Up to you.
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Old 12-05-2015, 05:13 PM
 
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I would like to give gifts to the staff who cares for my mom, but there are 15 of them. I don't get the sense that any one of them gives my mom more attention or is her primary caregiver, so I feel like I should do something for all of them. But cookies or popcorn seems lame, as does a $10 gift card to Starbucks. However, if I spend more it will get pricey quick! Any ideas of something different or meaningful?


$10 is more than a lot of people have! I wouldn't feel "lame" giving a $10 gift card, but make sure its something they can use. What if there isn't a Starbucks nearby? Perhaps a $10 gift card to....dare I say, Walmart? Or Target, or a local grocery store....in a nice card, but don't let the card be more than the gift! I got pretty good at making cards, depends on how "crafty" you are. Times are tight, don't feel you need to overspend, and don't think $10 is not appreciated
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Old 12-08-2015, 01:00 PM
 
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I think two food trays--one for each shift--would be appreciated and likely not break gift giving rules.
And to go with it--I would also go buy a big Christmas tin canister and fill it with specialty tea bags & international coffee & other instant drink packets like hot cocoa & apple cider. If personal gifts are okay, you could get each person a special coffee/hot cocoa cup instead of the food trays.
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Old 12-08-2015, 01:15 PM
 
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Ask the head person then decide if no personal gift and the money you have.

Tea is nice the small boxes with a nice jar of honey or jelly with maybe a 2.00 lottery ticket Acatalog I get Creative
Irish Gifts has a neat tin of tea I really like also the honey. Shipping is free and no sales tax
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Old 12-08-2015, 01:30 PM
 
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I think two food trays--one for each shift--would be appreciated and likely not break gift giving rules.
And to go with it--I would also go buy a big Christmas tin canister and fill it with specialty tea bags & international coffee & other instant drink packets like hot cocoa & apple cider. If personal gifts are okay, you could get each person a special coffee/hot cocoa cup instead of the food trays.
Just FYI there are 3 shifts, 6am-2pm, 2-10pm and 10pm-6am. The people on the 3rd shift generally get the short end of the stick and everyone eats their portion as well as 3rd shift's before they even get on duty.
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Old 12-08-2015, 02:04 PM
 
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Some form of food. It could be pizza for the last shifts and cinnamon rolls in the morning. Make sure you write a card thankingbthem. Rules are so strict about all you can do is food. Or a beautiful plant or floral arrangement to remain at the nurses station.

Making them feel appreciated is nice of you and wonderful for them!

I hope everything works out perfectly.

MSR
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Old 12-08-2015, 02:39 PM
 
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I just got me a neat Christmas Cactus why had none they last for always! I thought 2 minutes so why not.

the food stuff seems as not for me unless a box candy and the plant.
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