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Old 05-11-2016, 11:36 PM
 
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arsenokoitai does not mean homosexual..
Although the word is a joining of the words man and bed, as in androlays (man-layers), but the early interpretations of it included conservative ones that it was homosexuals and liberal ones that it was gigoloes and other ones that it was any form of anal sex even with a woman (since perhaps anal sex isn't otherwise forbid directly).

The word that often gets translated as "effeminate" is actually a word that meant "soft" for objects, "gentle" for senses, and emotional/thin-skinned for people.

Like "oh he's a big softy" but in the sense of breaking down crying or perhaps kicking and screaming like a baby.
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Old 05-12-2016, 12:21 AM
 
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Straight individuals with homosexual OCD experience obsessive fears about the possibility of being gay. Their HOCD obsessions often consist of unwanted thoughts, impulses, or images that uncontrollably pop into consciousness. To reduce the anxiety brought on by their obsessions, individuals with HOCD engage in a variety of rituals that focus on “proving their true sexuality” or reducing their perceived “vulnerability” to becoming gay.
Now I understand. Come to think of it, one of our anti-gay posters (or was it two?) did state that they chose to be straight when they married.
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Old 05-12-2016, 12:48 AM
 
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Now I understand. Come to think of it, one of our anti-gay posters (or was it two?) did state that they chose to be straight when they married.
So what were they before they married?...
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Old 05-12-2016, 02:51 AM
 
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So what were they before they married?...
He or they did not answer that question.
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Old 05-12-2016, 02:51 AM
 
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So what were they before they married?...
Happy?
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Old 05-12-2016, 04:50 AM
 
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Not loving your neighbor--as a matter of fact, finding a rationale within yourself to despise another who is a child of God--is a choice to defy God. Think carefully before you decide to hang on to your hatred based on mere words written by men in an ancient culture.
A willful sinner is not a child of God; as it is written, he or she is a child of the devil.
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Old 05-12-2016, 05:02 AM
 
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A willful sinner is not a child of God; as it is written, he or she is a child of the devil.
Ah, I get your logic. A gay person=willful sinner, which then frees you from Christ's command to love him or her.

I want to be a fly on the wall seeing you try to sell that one in the dock come your Judgment Day.
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Old 05-12-2016, 05:14 AM
 
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A willful sinner is not a child of God; as it is written, he or she is a child of the devil.
"If you love those who love you, what credit is that to you? Even sinners love those who love them.
And if you do good to those who are good to you, what credit is that to you? Even sinners do that.
And if you lend to those from whom you expect repayment, what credit is that to you? Even sinners lend to sinners, expecting to be repaid in full.
But love your enemies, do good to them, and lend to them without expecting to get anything back. Then your reward will be great, and you will be children of the Most High, because he is kind to the ungrateful and wicked.

So ONLY SINNERS love those who love them back and IGNORE those who are NOT party of their clique..
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Old 05-12-2016, 07:10 AM
 
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Homophobes Might Be Hidden Homosexuals - Scientific American (Journal of Personality and Social Psychology--April, 2012)

Fits to the T.

That's why they hate science as well--it exposes who they really are and why they are ashamed of themselves, although there is nothing to be ashamed about because of being same sex oriented--but it is the background of the latent homosexual that gives rise to "shame."

More links showing how homophobia is frequently related to internal sexual conflict:
Is Homophobia Associated With Homosexual Arousal---https://www.psychologytoday.com/files/u47/Henry_et_al.pdf (a 1996 article)

One psychoanalytic explanation is that anxiety about the possibility of being or becoming a homosexual may be a major factor in homophobia
. The Roots Of Homophobia - Putting Freud To The Test | Assault On Gay America | FRONTLINE | PBS

Is homophobia associated with homosexual arousal? - PubMed - NCBI (1996 study)

HOCD: Homosexual OCD & Sexual Orientation OCD | CPBS (South Florida|Palm Beach) | Center for Psychological & Behavioral Science

Homosexual Anxiety: A Misunderstood Form of OCD https://www.psychologytoday.com/file...mshocd2008.pdf (2008 Nova Science Publishers, Inc.)

Are you really going to play this ridiculous card again? Hey if all else fails, just accuse the Christian of being a closet gay!! It doesn't matter if I post here or not. This will still be a hotbed topic and I didn't even start the thread.

If you are going to play that game then one must wonder why atheists and people like you only seem to care about gay people and EXTREMELY defensive of them. You know there are other groups that face much worse discrimination out there than gay people, right? Why don't you campaign for their equality?
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Old 05-12-2016, 07:55 AM
 
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"If you love those who love you, what credit is that to you? Even sinners love those who love them.
And if you do good to those who are good to you, what credit is that to you? Even sinners do that.
And if you lend to those from whom you expect repayment, what credit is that to you? Even sinners lend to sinners, expecting to be repaid in full.
But love your enemies, do good to them, and lend to them without expecting to get anything back. Then your reward will be great, and you will be children of the Most High, because he is kind to the ungrateful and wicked.

So ONLY SINNERS love those who love them back and IGNORE those who are NOT party of their clique..
What does loving your enemy have to do with one's status as a child of God or a child of the devil? A willful sinner is the latter -- as it is written.
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