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I hear you. I had a teacher that was hot as hell. I wish she would have forced a bj on me. I would still be spanking jimmy thinking about it to this day.
I don't doubt that a bit. You know it still goes on just as much as it used to and maybe even more with social media and text making it so much easier for the teenagers to make contact after hours with the teachers. I can only imagine how often the teenage boys make attempts.
Yep, many people believe young girls are more negatively effected by this kind of thing, but that is completely wrong, girls of this age are worse than boys usually, they just know how to hide it better and use the 'innocent little angel' to their advantage if they need to. I know this for a fact as I dated girls like this when I was in middle and high school.
The attractive ones learn very early on in their lives, what kind of power they have over boys (and even adult men), they learn how to use this to their advantage.
Yep, many people believe young girls are more negatively effected by this kind of thing, but that is completely wrong, girls of this age are worse than boys usually, they just know how to hide it better and use the 'innocent little angel' to their advantage if they need to. I know this for a fact as I dated girls like this when I was in middle and high school.
The attractive ones learn very early on in their lives, what kind of power they have over boys (and even adult men), they learn how to use this to their advantage.
And, an adult man can set boundaries and say "NO" to the teenage girl. It's called having a backbone and not thinking with your other head. If one cannot set boundaries with teenagers, then don't work in a school. Please.
Although I think the teacher should definitely be fired and barred from teaching in the future, what is the purpose of suing the district -- and especially for $2.5 million?
According to the article, the boy texted the woman saying that he wanted to have sex with her again, so I don't think he was traumatized or seriously harmed. And according to the following article, it is not rare for middle-schoolers to have sex -- although, granted, it is not usually with their teachers!
Yes, to clarify, I DO think that eighth-graders are not ready to have sex, and to repeat, I think the teacher was VERY much in the wrong, but I think the boys' parents are just looking to get rich.
A child's innocence is priceless. I hope the parents win their suit.
Nothing like the taste of $2.5 million to ease the pain caused by loss of innocence, eh?
Such greed and such nonsense!
Its strange how many victims will say money means nothing and does not relieve them, but thats exactly what lawsuits set out to gain?!
Why is $$$ the goal in a lawsuit like this in the first place? if the young child was truly harmed emotionally from this, what good is $2.5M, or any amount of money? I guess its because money is about the only thing we can think of to give or offer them.
Its strange how many victims will say money means nothing and does not relieve them, but thats exactly what lawsuits set out to gain?!
Why is $$$ the goal in a lawsuit like this in the first place? if the young child was truly harmed emotionally from this, what good is $2.5M, or any amount of money? I guess its because money is about the only thing we can think of to give or offer them.
Highlighting events such as this, persistently telling someone that they are a victim of 'something' encourages so many so-called 'injured' people today to wallow in self pity 'forever' and to remain a victim. After all, what else is expected of them? Yes, I'm afraid my bed-side manner is somewhat wanting these days. The 13 year-old should suffer very little emotional/psychological consequences, if any, from this experience as long as people mind their own business and let it die a natural death. If the law wishes to deal with the teacher with whatever it deems appropriate, then so be it.
Highlighting events such as this, persistently telling someone that they are a victim of 'something' encourages so many so-called 'injured' people today to wallow in self pity 'forever' and to remain a victim. After all, what else is expected of them? Yes, I'm afraid my bed-side manner is somewhat wanting these days. The 13 year-old should suffer very little emotional/psychological consequences, if any, from this experience as long as people mind their own business and let it die a natural death. If the law wishes to deal with the teacher with whatever it deems appropriate, then so be it.
The 13 yr old student should be held responsible to some degree as well though, its not like they were totally innocent in this.
And, an adult man can set boundaries and say "NO" to the teenage girl. It's called having a backbone and not thinking with your other head. If one cannot set boundaries with teenagers, then don't work in a school. Please.
And an adult man can say NO to the mob holding his family for ransom.
Oh, he can't because his family will be harmed?
So what differentiates it from the adult man saying NO and having his career/reputation and possibly life ruined/ended after she runs and fabricates a story?
Adult men doing it without being blackmailed, with or without the minor's so called consent is a different story though.
Same with adult women doing it with minors...
And an adult man can say NO to the mob holding his family for ransom.
Oh, he can't because his family will be harmed?
So what differentiates it from the adult man saying NO and having his career/reputation and possibly life ruined/ended after she runs and fabricates a story?
Adult men doing it without being blackmailed, with or without the minor's so called consent is a different story though.
Same with adult women doing it with minors...
I girls I knew that did this kind of thing when they were younger, they always made sure to put the adult man into some awkward situation, even if he told her NO and had no part of it, there are still things that young girl can do, nowadays authorities and parents are more likely to believe the young girl (versus the male teacher), should it come down to a he said, she said argument.
Im not going to give out specifics, but lets just say, young girls are extremely 'kaniving' and manipulative, they are very good at getting what they want.
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