Do women show cleavage because men think it is sexy? (male, look)
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I have boobs that are on the rather large side so if im wearing some a little low cut I have lots of cleavage compared to a woman who isn't so top heavy.
I have difficulty with that comparison
Anything under C cup becomes invisible to me My eyes progress as if they caught glimpse of the, say, USPS drop box
What I REALLY hate and find totally disgusting is when FAT women go all out and try to show that they have cleavage. Its like its one thing they think they have going for themselves physically. Im like "Um, sweetheart, you can try to over emphasize your cleavage all you want and think that you look sexy and are attracting guys, but in reality your obesity is turning them off. Salma Hayak cleavage = awesome. Fat chick cleavage = GROSS.
Oh, and another thing - I also think its gross and low class when women refer to their cleavage/breasts as "the girls". As in "Yeah, girlfriend, Im bringing the girls out tonight and hope to find me a man...." Instant gross out when I hear that.
Salma Hayek is alright, Laoman, until she opens her mouth.
That's when she sounds like the janitor who shuts the men's room whenever I want to pee
Hey, I like fat chicks. As long as she is not a 300 lbs character Honestly, I find overweight women more attractive, as they are naturally pretty, without a man's chest for example.
My theory is that women show cleavage, because they know the guys love it.
If the guys did not love it, the woman would not show it.
If guys thought it was gross, women would not show it.
Even if women thought it was beautiful or more comfortable to show it, if men did not enjoy it, women would cover up.
Of course women show off their assets to men! Our physical attributes are the only way they really take stock of us, after all. But it runs deeper than that. Not everything is for men, regardless of what they think. Women are also highly competitive with one another, and I think the various aspects of showing oneself off reflect that.
I've never dressed to show cleavage, and they stare anyway! I never did like men gawking at my breasts, and never have understood why some women actually want random men doing that. Look at the gowns the actresses wear. Talk about wanting attention! Some of them barely cover their nipples. But, if there were to be a "nip slip", they would claim to be so embarrassed. Really? You're practically showing your nipples anyway.
I am small on top and and once in a while, I'll catch a man looking at my chest area. This weirds me out because I thought men only liked large breasts. I can't imagine how awkward and uncomfortable it must be for those who are built and deal with it a lot!
Of course women show off their assets to men! Our physical attributes are the only way they really take stock of us, after all. But it runs deeper than that. Not everything is for men, regardless of what they think. Women are also highly competitive with one another, and I think the various aspects of showing oneself off reflect that.
If thats all you bring to the table...
I would like to mean more than that to a guy. Just another reason to not dress that extreme. You dress like a ho you get treated like one more often than not. More so with younger women. It drives me insane when my friends dress that way and then complain about men only being interested in the body and not the mind as well. Or they just attract a lot of garbage guys that really have zero interest in them because the guy is just going: "boobsboobsboobsboobs" in the brain. They do that enough already without everything hanging out.
If your chest is OTT big...you could wear a turtleneck and people would stare. But your cleavage does not start at the clavicle bone even at that size.
LaoTzuMindFu What I REALLY hate and find totally disgusting is when FAT women go all out and try to show that they have cleavage. Its like its one thing they think they have going for themselves physically. Im like "Um, sweetheart, you can try to over emphasize your cleavage all you want and think that you look sexy and are attracting guys, but in reality your obesity is turning them off. Salma Hayak cleavage = awesome. Fat chick cleavage = GROSS.
Oh, and another thing - I also think its gross and low class when women refer to their cleavage/breasts as "the girls". As in "Yeah, girlfriend, Im bringing the girls out tonight and hope to find me a man...." Instant gross out when I hear that.
Oh lol.... Why do you want to look their disgusting cleavage? Turn your head or close your eyes. You cannot see it if you do not set your eyes to it
I would like to mean more than that to a guy. Just another reason to not dress that extreme. You dress like a ho you get treated like one more often than not. More so with younger women. It drives me insane when my friends dress that way and then complain about men only being interested in the body and not the mind as well. Or they just attract a lot of garbage guys that really have zero interest in them because the guy is just going: "boobsboobsboobsboobs" in the brain. They do that enough already without everything hanging out.
If your chest is OTT big...you could wear a turtleneck and people would stare. But your cleavage does not start at the clavicle bone even at that size.
I didn't say that's all I bring to the table and I do agree with you...but I also believe that's all most men really see.
Agreed about women and the hypocrisy...I have more than 1 friend who will wear revealing clothing and post pictures of herself dressed so all over the place, then feign outrage when men stare and make comments.
That depends on the woman. Some women do it because they love to have men look at them in a sexy way. Some women do it because it makes them feel better about themselves. Some do it simply as a fashion statement or personal sense of style. Side boobage is what I personally think is the best though.
I would not go so far as to call it trashy though like some poster here said. Trashy is the total package, not just showing boob. I once saw Salma Hayak showing a LOT of boob during brunch one week and she looked AMAZING!! Saw another chick showing a lot less boob who looked like a sterotypical trailer park Budweiser drinking, cigarette smoking, hair in curlers, walmart shopping, welfare living, dried up wrinkly elephant grey, straw haired, 38 year old NASCAR grandma and SHE looked trashy.
Trashyness is in the complete package, NOT just showing cleavage.
Salma would look hot without it hanging out. But anyway she makes her money on being a sex symbol.Its her job to look that way. Everyday women...uhhh not really. And I wouldn't be looking to Hollywood starlets of the sexually geared kind to be examples of modesty and self respect. They are the semi-trashy wild girl fantasy selling sex. Back in the real world you dress like that and show up to your job you are getting sent right back home to change to meet company dress code policy. Unless you are a bar wench or various other positions where your requirement is to look like a hunk of meat for play.
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My eyes progress as if they caught glimpse of the, say, USPS drop box 
