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It COULD be those of us who are tired of men having conversations with our chests. Look at my eyes when I am speaking to you. This has been happening to me since I was a preteen, and it is not flattering. It is something that makes me feel like an object, not a person. Liking big boobs should be a personal preference that is kept to oneself. Then, who would know, and who would care?
That happens to me all the time too (and to most women I think). It doesn't bother me because I'll immediately chalk them up as idiots with low control and extricate myself from those guys/conversations or simply say, "Eyes up here buddy" or take advantage of their distraction. I have already said that the smart man admires boobs quietly. My hubby was one of the few men who didn't compliment/overtly check out my body in the early stages of the relationship. That was very smart.
Men treating you like an object is their problem (and potential demise), but you feeling like an object is within your control and can be immediately addressed by 1) leaving 2) speaking up 3) judging them as complete idiots and managing the situation to your advantage. It is unlikely we will change man's natural instinct to admire (sometimes very overtly/crassly) our boobs.
TYour typical fat white joe schmoe? Look creep, I'm more than my body, what a disgusting idiot.
But typical fat black joe schmoes and fat Asian joe schmoes and fat Hispanic joe schmoes are OK?
Me, I have a preference for breasts that make milk regardless of size; in other words, do what nature designed them to do i.e. feed babies. What's the use of having large mammaries that don't work?
Males who focus obsessively on female breasts ("the bigger the better") are products of mass media behavior programming.
Probably, our primitive ancestors didn't have a whole lot of excess body fat, so breasts wouldn't have been very large, and of course females had to do a lot of physical work so had plenty of pectoral and shoulder/arm muscles. Wouldn't be very attractive to most males today.
When are men going to wear clothing that reveals some portion of their penises? Then will women be looking down all the time, sizing and comparing one male's organ with another's?
Have you ever noticed that when you are trying to carry on a conversation with a woman who has big boobs and a low cut top on, no matter HOW HARD YOU TRY you can not keep your eyes focused on her eyes ? It is if your eyes have a mind of their own, they keep dropping down and you have to force them back up again before you are caught. I have often wondered "Did she see me taking that peek ?
Next time you are talking with a woman like that, try it, believe me, you will not be able to maintain eye contact.
Have you ever noticed that when you are trying to carry on a conversation with a woman who has big boobs and a low cut top on, no matter HOW HARD YOU TRY you can not keep your eyes focused on her eyes ? It is if your eyes have a mind of their own, they keep dropping down and you have to force them back up again before you are caught. I have often wondered "Did she see me taking that peek ?
Next time you are talking with a woman like that, try it, believe me, you will not be able to maintain eye contact.
Don
lol What I've noticed is that the guys who are trying to be good guys, trying to do the right thing, will keep eye contact, but when they think you're not looking, like if you glance away, they'll take a peek. Whether you're wearing a low cut top or not, whether your boobs are big or not. If they like you, they're interested in your boobs, size doesn't matter.
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I have often wondered "Did she see me taking that peek ?
