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Old 04-01-2014, 08:35 PM
 
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Originally Posted by Nana1988 View Post
It's all about attitude. I've dated couple guys who are no near being attractive, but they were sweet, successful

and have their lives together and that what attracted me to them.

Do you mean successful as in career and/or financially? I presume you would have no use for a sweet educated burger flipper.
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Old 04-01-2014, 08:46 PM
 
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Any guy who thinks women choose their mates based on looks or money is lying to himself.
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Old 04-01-2014, 08:55 PM
 
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My evaluation of myself as unattractive is based on evidence. Why is that so hard to believe?
It's not.

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I've seen how women act around guys they're attracted to, and I've never seen a woman act that way around me. What else am I supposed to conclude?
Whatever you want to conclude.

Are these rhetorical questions or are you actually trying to ask us something?
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Old 04-01-2014, 08:59 PM
 
Location: Pa
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I am saying it helps a guy if woman find him attractive way more then it hurts him.
This is true 30 min sex boy. Lol
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Old 04-01-2014, 09:01 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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I believe you.
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Old 04-01-2014, 09:14 PM
 
Location: Houston, Tx
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Not about looks women love a great personialty.
I call B.S. on that. Personality may help some what, but all the personality in the world is not going to make a woman like a guy thats unattractive. Now if you would have said its not about looks women care more about money/status then I would agree with you. We've seen many examples of that.
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Old 04-01-2014, 09:16 PM
 
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Why do you think people think it's hard to believe?
Seconded.
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Old 04-01-2014, 09:37 PM
 
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I call B.S. on that. Personality may help some what, but all the personality in the world is not going to make a woman like a guy thats unattractive. Now if you would have said its not about looks women care more about money/status then I would agree with you. We've seen many examples of that.
Maybe in your world but I have turned down more than one mega money man who was attractive physically as well but was very unattractive because he was a terrible human.
I am not in love with money I am in love with my husband and found him and kept him when he barely owned the clothes on his back. Money is NOT everything to everyone and to me my husband is very attractive physically and he is a good man. I'm sure that he is not physically attractive to many others and I just don't care.
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Old 04-01-2014, 09:45 PM
 
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Personality before looks. If you lack personality and the ability to converse it is totally believable.
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Old 04-01-2014, 10:05 PM
 
Location: Chicago
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I've seen how women act around guys they're attracted to, and I've never seen a woman act that way around me. What else am I supposed to conclude?
Plenty of "unattractive" men find admirers, lovers and spouses. I can't believe you are the one exception. You probably either haven't met the right woman yet. Or, maybe you have, but don't want to give her a chance...
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