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figured since this is a forum about cities and vacations ect you probably are heavily social xd and kinda shy to write this but whatever
I'm bored almost every day cause I don't hang out with my friends, I'm almost 18 now and never drunk any alcoholic drink except a beer which i also don't want to drink even though its good taste, in my whole life i went 4 times in a bar (counting just when i went with a friend or friends) and 1 time we were just tired and thirsty so we took glasses of water lol, one time we were doing something for school so a bar only had such big table to draw a map for geography and one of the two friends i went with jst bought a coca cola so we can stay and draw, two times i went with more than two friends and all of them were drinking a beer, I'm thinking if i go to a club and not a bar how can i have fun if I'm not drinking nor dancing (don't want to try either), I don't want to be the one who is lonely or always stared at because i drink a coke or because loneliness, I also ain't a big social person, I rarely start a conversation...
Ah I don't know what to do, I had amazing extreme fun when none of my age drunk and that was like idk 5, 6 years ago or some we just hang out at a park, I sometimes played football or smth with them but rarely and I still had fun just talking discussing when they took a pause, but then few years later most started to drink and go out to clubs and bars and I didn't, so now that I'm totally bored I start thinking that one day I'll have to go to a club since I can't chill anywhere else, I also don't understand how they have fun indoors but whatever
and now how was your first time going to a party and how can i a non dancer, non drinker and outdoor fan (parks) have fun at a club where all the surroundings are people who drink the "show off" drink lol? suggestions what to do?
EDIT: can someone move this to entertainment category?
figured since this is a forum about cities and vacations ect you probably are heavily social xd and kinda shy to write this but whatever
I'm bored almost every day cause I don't hang out with my friends, I'm almost 18 now and never drunk any alcoholic drink except a beer which i also don't want to drink even though its good taste, in my whole life i went 4 times in a bar (counting just when i went with a friend or friends) and 1 time we were just tired and thirsty so we took glasses of water lol, one time we were doing something for school so a bar only had such big table to draw a map for geography and one of the two friends i went with jst bought a coca cola so we can stay and draw, two times i went with more than two friends and all of them were drinking a beer, I'm thinking if i go to a club and not a bar how can i have fun if I'm not drinking nor dancing (don't want to try either), I don't want to be the one who is lonely or always stared at because i drink a coke or because loneliness, I also ain't a big social person, I rarely start a conversation...
Ah I don't know what to do, I had amazing extreme fun when none of my age drunk and that was like idk 5, 6 years ago or some we just hang out at a park, I sometimes played football or smth with them but rarely and I still had fun just talking discussing when they took a pause, but then few years later most started to drink and go out to clubs and bars and I didn't, so now that I'm totally bored I start thinking that one day I'll have to go to a club since I can't chill anywhere else, I also don't understand how they have fun indoors but whatever
and now how was your first time going to a party and how can i a non dancer, non drinker and outdoor fan (parks) have fun at a club where all the surroundings are people who drink the "show off" drink lol? suggestions what to do?
EDIT: can someone move this to entertainment category?
If you like to draw (and are pretty good at it) volunteer to sketch people (like a caricaturist at the summer amusement parks.
If you like to sing (and you can hold a note) go to places with Karaoke
Try your hand at impersonations / characterizations
Acquire a bar / lounge / club skill: everything from darts to weird trivia, juggling, drop catching pennies off your elbow, etc... there's a myriad of silly things people have come up with over the years.
I don't drink and never have. Wife and I spent many weekend nights at my stepdaughter's. Her husband is in the Army and has a lot of his buddies over on weekends. Lots of beer pong, Jager bombs, and 14 acres for 4 wheeling. I was there to keep food going on the charcoal and just to visit with them all. My wife might drink maybe once or twice a year, but it's wine coolers for her. We're out there just mainly to visit and help out. I've always said I have nothing against somebody drinking until they get too drunk and start pushing everybody around. Ft. Campbell has some good folks who like to get away from base and have a little fun.
Sit or stand in the corner... break out your iphone.... play Candy Crush.
SUPER AWESOME FUN NIGHT!!!!
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