You might be in luck in terms of bars being willing to put the game on one of their monitors since that game has a 1PM start time. Unfortunately, I have no idea about where other Texan fans meet up in New Jersey. Sorry. A quick search online yielded
this site for Texans Fans. There may be fans from NJ that post there who might be able to help you out.
Just keep in mind that any bar up here is going to make certain the Cowboys-Jets game in the Meadowlands and the Giants-Redskins game in DC are going to be on.
Sorry I can't be of more help.