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I know I posted about this incident a few times since last year, but if anyone remembers I had spoken of my OLD ex best friend and how she hated my guts because I called her names n stuff.
Well after a whole year of not talking me except a few times on and off of me trying to reconnect with her, she shows up at my front door this morning!
I was like WTF. So her and I talked out on the porch and then hung out at the park and the mall talking about what each of us has been up too etc.
To me it just felt really weird to be around her again and tho we were having an alright good time me I just felt weird and anxious.
Like it didn't feel right type of feeling. I don't know IF I want to bring back the friendship even though I wanted it back and now I can have it back again I am not so sure if I want it or not.
If it just feels weird, then forget it. Tell her that you appreciate her stopping in, although you felt very weird hanging out and its best if you each go your own way.
Honestly right now there isn't much you can do, other than not having high expectations. It doesn't sound like you know where this path is going to go. There's no rush... just let things fall where they will.
Either way, at least it looks like this issue's been resolved (hopefully!) and you've got that kind of closure.
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Originally Posted by napy666
I know I posted about this incident a few times since last year, but if anyone remembers I had spoken of my OLD ex best friend and how she hated my guts because I called her names n stuff.
Well after a whole year of not talking me except a few times on and off of me trying to reconnect with her, she shows up at my front door this morning!
I was like WTF. So her and I talked out on the porch and then hung out at the park and the mall talking about what each of us has been up too etc.
To me it just felt really weird to be around her again and tho we were having an alright good time me I just felt weird and anxious.
Like it didn't feel right type of feeling. I don't know IF I want to bring back the friendship even though I wanted it back and now I can have it back again I am not so sure if I want it or not.
Well you went from not talking at all to shopping in the mall in just a few hours, of course that would feel weird. If you think you might want to re-connect, see her now and then and see if that feeling goes away or not. If it doesn't tell her you just can't do this, it isn't working. If you continue to feel better about it, then you have rekindled an old friendship.
Me and my friend have continued to hang out on and off a bit. And it feels ok but I'm getting tired of hearing about her worrying again and again hahaha. When I try telling her about a problem of mine she doesn't seem to care or listen haha.
I know I posted about this incident a few times since last year, but if anyone remembers I had spoken of my OLD ex best friend and how she hated my guts because I called her names n stuff.
Calling people "names and stuff" is very juvenile. Why did you do it? You're a grown woman, not a 10 yr old. Apologize to her and move on......
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Ugh I don't know what to do.
Some group therapy to learn how to get along with others? And I'm not being facetious or sarcastic.
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You're a grown woman, not a 10 yr old. Apologize to her and move on......
