Am I being ghosted by my former BFF?

[Parnassia]

Those who want respect need to give it. Inconvenient isn't it? Leave this poor gal alone. Find someone else to obsess over.

[PriscillaVanilla]

I thought an ex was an ex for a reason.

[Formerly Known As Twenty]

Originally Posted by luckygirl15

Am I being ghosted? My former BFF and now acquaintance friend has not contacted me in over a week.

No text, email or phone calls. I think she is ghosting me. I don't want to contact her b/c I'm mad at how she has designated me to the "acquaintance friendship".

She's your friend--not your lover. Not all friendships are dependent upon being constantly in contact.

Out of curiosity (and assuming that this friend is the same friend who was the subject of one of your previous threads, i.e., the friend with whom you'd "broken up" with four years ago), why did you break up with her in the past? Knowing that key detail might give us some insight as to what's going on with your friendship and allow us to better advise you.

P.S. In order to have a friend, you need to be a friend. Have you reached out to her in the past week to say "hello" or are you just waiting for her to contact you?

[E-Twist]

Maybe she's busy, maybe she just hasn't thought of you (you not being the most important thing in her life), maybe she is purposefully ghosting you. As she is no longer your BFF, why do you give a rat's ass?