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Am I being ghosted? My former BFF and now acquaintance friend has not contacted me in over a week.
No text, email or phone calls. I think she is ghosting me. I don't want to contact her b/c I'm mad at how she has designated me to the "acquaintance friendship".
Last edited by luckygirl15; 04-15-2019 at 10:36 AM..
Is this the same friend who you're mad at because you expect her to introduce you to her friends? I'd venture a guess that she's sick of you and doesn't want to have anything to do with you.
So yes, I think she's ghosting you. And I think she's justified.
I would think that out of respect, she would at least contact me to explain why she doesn't want to be friends anymore. That way, I wouldn't have to wonder what I did to make her act this way.
I would think that out of respect, she would at least contact me to explain why she doesn't want to be friends anymore. That way, I wouldn't have to wonder what I did to make her act this way.
Let it go. You left her a few years ago didn't you? Then contacted her back asking to be friends? (unless I am mixing up threads)
You probably are just not as close as you think you are. She may not want to talk to you weekly.
People should say "Hey I don't want to be friends anymore because of xyz" but it is uncomfortable and they don't always do it.
I would think that out of respect, she would at least contact me to explain why she doesn't want to be friends anymore. That way, I wouldn't have to wonder what I did to make her act this way.
Are you serious? You really might need to see a professional to help you process what you did wrong and why you need to let this go.
I would think that out of respect, she would at least contact me to explain why she doesn't want to be friends anymore. That way, I wouldn't have to wonder what I did to make her act this way.
Uh huh. And what would you say exactly? I highly doubt it would be a "thanks for the memories and I wish you well," would it?
You will demand explanations and shoot every one of them down while also trying to hurt her feelings the way she hurt you. Be honest for once.
You have proven yourself to be emotionally volatile and impulsively aggressive. People who learn that fact about you are going to ease away quietly. Get used to it.
Your anxiety and insecurity are what you should worry about.
You can't rely on other people to make you feel better about your life. That's up to you.
Give this person a break and stop manufacturing drama. She's been a friend to you. You're expecting her to meet unwritten demands that exist in your head.
I would think that out of respect, she would at least contact me to explain why she doesn't want to be friends anymore. That way, I wouldn't have to wonder what I did to make her act this way.
I don't think that very many of us here are wondering why.
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