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two that complete each other... do the gays complete each other? do they form a functional entity? no... they're not a couple... but not this is the problem.
So when I say I'm going to the store to pick up a couple of shirts, what I REALLY want is a group of shirts that complete each other and can produce baby shirts?
O.K.!
If you and many other think everything is "normal and not embarrassing", let's imagine this scene in a close future:
A man is elected president of a country, and this man is married with another man.
How must be called his husband/wife?? First lady or first husband?
How the country's people will feel being represented abroad for a "couple gay"?
Imagine this couple gay visiting an Islamic country. (Will be a big trouble)
You maybe happy, but I will feel ashamed.
Think about. This awkward scene will can happen any day.
Someone is a little insecure of his own sexuality.
In that case, please tell me the date that you decided that you were heterosexual.
Not only that, how did you come to that decision? Did you make a pro and con list? Did you experiment having sex with both men and women? Did you seek counsel from family and friends about making your choice?
Once you made your choice to be heterosexual, how did you biologically effect that choice? How did you turn off your same sex attraction and turn on your opposite sex attraction? Perhaps you could describe the biological process or mechanism by which that was done.
Hace you ever witnessed or listened to a gay cermony?
If Barry Jones and Jack Smith unite they are formally introduced as Barry and Jack Jones. or Barry and Jack Smith-Jones. There is no husband and husband to it. At the most it is awakard to hear the first time. Even so*, it is not nearly as asawkward or*offensive as ignorance.
So prior to the 5th grade, you were attracted to boys, but then made a conscious effort to like girls?
Interesting.
Prior to 5th grade I wasn't attracted to anybody... It was a decision that I made in the 5th grade after I analyzed the facts and I thought that it will be ok to like that girl because she looks she's fine for me. After I made the decision I started to have feelings... and that's how I became straight (prior to that I had no sexual orientation).
If I want to become a homosexual I just find a guy that I like and I made myself believe that it's normal to be with another guy... it's that easy... it's all in our brains... we, as humans, are able to control what we believe and what we feel.
Prior to 5th grade I wasn't attracted to anybody... It was a decision that I made in the 5th grade after I analyzed the facts and I thought that it will be ok to like that girl because she looks she's fine for me. After I made the decision I started to have feelings... and that's how I became straight (prior to that I had no sexual orientation).
If I want to become a homosexual I just find a guy that I like and I made myself believe that it's normal to be with another guy... it's that easy... it's all in our brains... we, as humans, are able to control what we believe and what we feel.
After you analyzed the facts? Right. Because people are always their most rational at age 10.
Not only that, how did you come to that decision? Did you make a pro and con list? Did you experiment having sex with both men and women? Did you seek counsel from family and friends about making your choice?
Once you made your choice to be heterosexual, how did you biologically effect that choice? How did you turn off your same sex attraction and turn on your opposite sex attraction? Perhaps you could describe the biological process or mechanism by which that was done.
We, the humans, live in communities. We're influenced by the ones the surround us. I never seen a homosexual until I left Europe. I wasn't brainwashed into believing that homosexuality is normal as you guys are in the US.
So... I was a kid and I've seen that some of my friends meet girls... and I decided that I have to do the same... and yes... I made a pro and a con list. There were more advantages than disadvantages and I chose to do it.
If I was like you... growing up in US and brainwashed into believing that you can be either a homosexual or a normal person and that's fine I probably thought more if I will become a homosexual or a normal person.
Prior to 5th grade I wasn't attracted to anybody... It was a decision that I made in the 5th grade after I analyzed the facts and I thought that it will be ok to like that girl because she looks she's fine for me. After I made the decision I started to have feelings... and that's how I became straight (prior to that I had no sexual orientation).
If I want to become a homosexual I just find a guy that I like and I made myself believe that it's normal to be with another guy... it's that easy... it's all in our brains... we, as humans, are able to control what we believe and what we feel.
Hahaha.
It's sounds to me that you're a bisexual.
There is no force on this Earth that could make me sexually attracted to a women. God knows I tried as a child to be (every gay man in this society did). From about age 10-17, I wished every single night that I'd wake up and be "normal" - that my sexual and emotional attraction towards other men would be replaced with an attraction to women. I even tried fantasizing about women when I masturbated trying to spark that attracting within me - instant non-erection.
We, the humans, live in communities. We're influenced by the ones the surround us. I never seen a homosexual until I left Europe. I wasn't brainwashed into believing that homosexuality is normal as you guys are in the US.
What????? Homosexuality is much, much, much, much more accepted and normalized in Europe than in the US.
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