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African Americans who look mixed are more mainstream, they are considered less threatening, and most people agree that they are more attractive than black people who don't look mixed. I know that if I looked mixed my life would be so much easier. People would be nicer and more accepting of me. I wouldn't have to question or constantly worry about how attractive or feminine I appear to the opposite sex. all the negative things said about black women especially dark black women in the media would not affect me. I'd be able to open up an African American magazine and see women who resembled me. Dating the opposite sex would be so much easier. If there was some type of surgery that could make me look naturally mixed like Lauren London, Rihanna or Beyonce I'd be the first in line to get it. I really wished my family would have mixed the gene pool a lot more. I don't know what they were thinking, it's like they didn't take into account how hard life would be on their offspring (especially for girls) by mating with each other.
Stop.
My wife is dark skinned and gorgeous. And I'm light skinned.
Last time I checked light skinned brothers were out of style and I still managed to get mine.
A professional is not going to make me lighter. Or give me light eyes. Or make people see darkskin as beautiful.
But a professional will help you divorce you of the notion that you NEED to change your skin tone.
You are obsessed with what other people have, instead of finding your own life and happiness.
Who cares how many people think a light skinned girl is pretty? All you need is that one person who thinks YOU are pretty.
There has been brown skinned woman after brown skinned woman in your threads, some of whom acknowledge your experience that colorism exists and that agree it is not pleasant, who keep telling you that they have learned to deal with the negative and you can to, that you can date and find a happy life. You ignore us.
People keep urging you to seek help. Over and over again. You ignore us.
Some people have spoken to you with warm, embracing laguage and have again urged you to seek help. You ignore us.
Anytime anyone says anything to you, you explain it away and bring it back to your point of view in an attempt to "prove" everyone else wrong. No one understands you, everyone else is lying, the only way to see this is the way you see it. You refuse to consider other viewpoints.
Really you seem like a troll. If you are not a troll, YOU NEED HELP. Hell even if you are a troll you need help.
This is making me wish I was lighter even more. I hate my skin tone
The good thing is that a person with very dark skin with wrinkles, looks better then a light skinned person, because in a light skinned person the dark wrinkles really stand out. So you will benefit when you are older. I've seen very dark-skinned people who look younger, because you cannot notice their wrinkles. while even a thirty year old white skinned red headed woman will look older, because her wrinkles stand out
But a professional will help you divorce you of the notion that you NEED to change your skin tone.
You are obsessed with what other people have, instead of finding your own life and happiness.
Who cares how many people think a light skinned girl is pretty? All you need is that one person who thinks YOU are pretty.
There has been brown skinned woman after brown skinned woman in your threads, some of whom acknowledge your experience that colorism exists and that agree it is not pleasant, who keep telling you that they have learned to deal with the negative and you can to, that you can date and find a happy life. You ignore us.
People keep urging you to seek help. Over and over again. You ignore us.
Some people have spoken to you with warm, embracing laguage and have again urged you to seek help. You ignore us.
Anytime anyone says anything to you, you explain it away and bring it back to your point of view in an attempt to "prove" everyone else wrong. No one understands you, everyone else is lying, the only way to see this is the way you see it. You refuse to consider other viewpoints.
Really you seem like a troll. If you are not a troll, YOU NEED HELP. Hell even if you are a troll you need help.
Stop posting and see a doctor.
Wish I could rep you again but I gotta spread it around.
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I've seen very dark-skinned people who look younger, because you cannot notice their wrinkles. while even a thirty year old white skinned red headed woman will look older, because her wrinkles stand out