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Old 11-14-2015, 09:13 AM
 
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It's a foster kid not an adopted kid so it's about "placement" right? I mean, forget the "daughter" stuff. It's not their child (either couple). This is about money. The people in possession of the kid get paid. The kid still belongs to the birth parents. Do I have that right?
Yes, but do you have a point here? Are you saying people are only foster parents because of the money? If so I know some foster parents that would be happy to rip you a new one over that.
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Old 11-14-2015, 09:15 AM
 
Location: State of Grace
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A Utah judge has ordered that a foster child being raised by a lesbian couple be taken away and given to a heterosexual couple. There is nothing in Utah law where the sexual preferences of foster parents matters, The judge did this because, he believes, it is better for the child. These strikes me as outrageous. Do conservatives support this kind of judicial activism?

Utah lesbian couple speaks out on Judge Scott Johansen's order to remove baby - CBS News

I agree with the judge's decision. I have nothing against homosexuals, but when children are brought into the picture, I believe they need traditional role models. Flame away, if y'like.
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Old 11-14-2015, 09:16 AM
 
Location: Home is Where You Park It
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It's a foster kid not an adopted kid so it's about "placement" right? I mean, forget the "daughter" stuff. It's not their child (either couple). This is about money. The people in possession of the kid get paid. The kid still belongs to the birth parents. Do I have that right?
Not quite. This couple is intending to adopt, not just be temporary caretakers.

The birth mother is in the process of giving up her parental rights.
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Old 11-14-2015, 09:26 AM
 
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I agree with the judge's decision. I have nothing against homosexuals, but when children are brought into the picture, I believe they need traditional role models. Flame away, if y'like.
Those "traditional role models" are the ones who are responsible for the huge number of children who are in the foster care system to begin with. Yeah, those are some "role models" you have there.
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Old 11-14-2015, 09:33 AM
 
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I agree with the judge's decision. I have nothing against homosexuals, but when children are brought into the picture, I believe they need traditional role models. Flame away, if y'like.
Like the kids birth parents?
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Old 11-14-2015, 09:46 AM
 
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I attribute it to the unwarranted prejudice against them, particularly by fundamentalist hate filled Christians.

And your qualifications for your attributions are...?

A 'normal' family consists of a mother and a father. Males and females have different attributes, as well as personalities, and a child needs both a mother and a father to have the best shot at growing up well adjusted. There are scores of studies on this subject.

This has nothing to do with personal prejudices, if indeed they exist, and everything to do with biology.
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Old 11-14-2015, 09:48 AM
 
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And your qualifications for your attributions are...?

A 'normal' family consists of a mother and a father. Males and females have different attributes, as well as personalities, and a child needs both a mother and a father to have the best shot at growing up well adjusted. There are scores of studies on this subject.
I also know some single mothers that would rip you over this also........If you are arguing for perfection you are wasting your time and IMO you should just state your true feelings as opposed to something that is never going to happen.
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Old 11-14-2015, 09:52 AM
 
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Those "traditional role models" are the ones who are responsible for the huge number of children who are in the foster care system to begin with. Yeah, those are some "role models" you have there.

Obviously, any heterosexual couple that is caring for children in the foster care system will have undergone extensive background checks and training. Traditional role models, in this case, refer to one stable and loving mother and one stable and loving father. These aren't the kind of people who are 'responsible for the huge number of children who are in the foster care system to begin with.' Frankly, that is an absurd contention.
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Old 11-14-2015, 09:54 AM
 
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Not sure why the left is so up in outrage.

The judge took a study and applied a ruling. Same as 100 or so stupid rulings they agree with and ignore the reasoning behind. I don't see them complaining about the use of biased opinionated studies in the Second Circuit recently.
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Old 11-14-2015, 09:57 AM
 
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Not sure why the left is so up in outrage.

The judge took a study and applied a ruling. Same as 100 or so stupid rulings they agree with and ignore the reasoning behind. I don't see them complaining about the use of biased opinionated studies in the Second Circuit recently.
The left? I'm pro life so I support those who are willing and able to take in the unwanted children.
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