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I am female and married since 7-8 months. I am very close to celebrating my 30th bday.I desperately want kids. However my husband is okay not having them. But since I want them we had agreed before marriage that we will have them eventually. The problem is that he does not get done inside me regularly. It is only once in a while. I have ovulation problems but my Dr can give me clomid. But since my DH has problems, it is not a good decision to take clomid. He has been to a Dr and they have prescribed him with blood tests. Since he does not have insurance, this may get expensive. Also. my DH can get excited very soon but it fades away soon too. Anyone facing this issue? Please help.
It doesn't sound like your husband is infertile, just that he has difficulty releasing at the right time. This could be psychological (related to him not being too keen on kids), or physical. Blood tests are a good idea, and the doctor may be able to suggest positions or exercises to help.
If all else fails, IUI may be an option, but that would get very expensive without insurance.
Please help me guys! My hubby says that he does not get done because he doesnt see me excited. He just takes so long and then also all the exitement fades away. Please help. He says the problem is with me and wont see a Dr!
What kind of advice are you looking for?
You two need to sit down together; tell him how important having a baby is for you, but at the same time, try to relax. 7 months is really not a long time. Maybe attend some marriage counselling.
I am thinking, he is possibly not feeling ready to have kids, and that is where the problem is stemming from. If he's stressed (consciously or not), he's going to have a hard time finishing.
If I am wrong, then have fun trying other solutions! Different positions...watch an adult movie...ask him what might help.
YOU are NOT the problem, this is either a psychological or even possibly a physiological issue on his end. Not trying to place blame here, but it is cruel of him to say things that will make you feel bad and that are untrue.
Either he is under stress or he just doesn't want kids.
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