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Old 04-16-2014, 07:04 AM
 
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I think Billy J is making insane assumptions.
Which specific assumptions? (You think I am bad, try reading some of Freud's books! )

FYI - The high school fooling around thing, I read in a psychology book in college many years ago. Again I don't know if that is true or not...
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Old 04-16-2014, 07:06 AM
 
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I believe it depends on how open minded a man is. Never mind the fact that a man has male parts. There is very little difference phenotypically between a male and a female, and the only cause of the small physical differences that exist is the presence of the Y chromosome vs. an extra X chromosome. A man has lips, a stomach, legs, arms, eyes, etc. Females have the same body parts. A man kissing another man is physically the same as a woman kissing a man. The only difference is the social stigma attached to the act itself.
My thinking as well.

Also who would a blind man be attracted to? Male? Female? Attractive? Not so attractive? Does not matter?
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Old 04-16-2014, 07:08 AM
 
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We have read tonight here from some of our lonely male posters that if it gets really bad and they cannot find a woman to have sex with or to love them, that men who are unsuccessful in dating will ultimately sleep with men instead....
Considering that females sell sex along an enormous price range, I would think that only a literally penniless heterosexual male would have to even momentarily entertain men as an option for sex.

On the other hand, if a heterosexual guy is such a total loser that he cannot find a female partner, he is probably suffering a major crisis of over-confidence in thinking he is going to score with any guy.

Sounds like a four-legged option might stand the reality test.
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Old 04-16-2014, 07:11 AM
 
Location: Florida
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I believe it depends on how open minded a man is. Never mind the fact that a man has male parts. There is very little difference phenotypically between a male and a female, and the only cause of the small physical differences that exist is the presence of the Y chromosome vs. an extra X chromosome. A man has lips, a stomach, legs, arms, eyes, etc. Females have the same body parts. A man kissing another man is physically the same as a woman kissing a man. The only difference is the social stigma attached to the act itself.
No. Coming from a straight guy there is very much a difference between a man and a women. Subtle things that all add up. The smell of a woman, the look of he skin, the lack of hair everywhere, the long flowing hair, the hips, the curves....do we really need an anatomy lesson?
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Old 04-16-2014, 07:12 AM
 
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We have read tonight here from some of our lonely male posters that if it gets really bad and they cannot find a woman to have sex with or to love them, that men who are unsuccessful in dating will ultimately sleep with men instead.

How true is this? What would it take for a lonely straight (and non-incarcerated) man to seek sex from another man?

"Incels," let's hear your views.
What would it take?
About $1 billion
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Old 04-16-2014, 07:16 AM
 
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We have read tonight here from some of our lonely male posters that if it gets really bad and they cannot find a woman to have sex with or to love them, that men who are unsuccessful in dating will ultimately sleep with men instead.

How true is this? What would it take for a lonely straight (and non-incarcerated) man to seek sex from another man?

"Incels," let's hear your views.
That probably indicates that we have heard from some male posters who are lonely because they are confused about their homosexuality.
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Old 04-16-2014, 07:17 AM
 
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I believe it depends on how open minded a man is. Never mind the fact that a man has male parts. There is very little difference phenotypically between a male and a female, and the only cause of the small physical differences that exist is the presence of the Y chromosome vs. an extra X chromosome. A man has lips, a stomach, legs, arms, eyes, etc. Females have the same body parts. A man kissing another man is physically the same as a woman kissing a man. The only difference is the social stigma attached to the act itself.
Hmmm. I'm going to have to call that objectively incorrect.
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Old 04-16-2014, 07:21 AM
 
Location: DFW
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1. Life in Prison
2. Stranded on a deserted island for years.
3. If he looked damn hot in that little red dress, had boobs and I was totally drunk. (and no one knew)
4. All the women turned to Zombies.
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Old 04-16-2014, 07:32 AM
 
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...3. If he looked damn hot in that little red dress, had boobs and I was totally drunk. (and no one knew)...
Actually with some of those straight married guys posting to craigslist.org (Casual Encounters, M4M) I mentioned above, they are saying they prefer men who are small/slender and no body hair. Also some mention it would be cool if the guy was wearing women's clothes!

So straight guys are advertising for men who look like women! I've not figured that one out??? (Although men are QUITE willing to quickly jump in the sack, then leave as soon as the deed is done - no flowers, dinner, expense, child support, etc.)
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Old 04-16-2014, 07:35 AM
 
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God announcing that He's going into some other business.
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