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Old 12-08-2016, 08:14 AM
 
Location: Howard County, Maryland
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First off, I'm not at all annoyed about giving or receiving actual hugs. I'm talking about the meme that floats around the Internet, like this:



I find these to be very annoying. First off, the implication is that some or most of the sender's friends are only faking that they care, and thus the sender needs to have their friends prove it. Secondly, how does it make anyone feel hugged if someone else likes and shares their posts? And then there's the kicker: I know who "really" cares about me, versus who only fakes it.

Which begs the question: why do you need to "see" who really cares if you already "know" who will hug you?

I find these things to be very annoying and a form of emotional blackmail. What do others think?
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Old 12-08-2016, 08:16 AM
 
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*Gives big bear e-hug to bus man*
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Old 12-08-2016, 08:18 AM
 
Location: Sugarmill Woods , FL
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Memes in general are annoying!
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Old 12-08-2016, 08:37 AM
 
Location: Howard County, Maryland
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Originally Posted by ShiverMeTimber View Post
*Gives big bear e-hug to bus man*
I knew you would hug me.


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Originally Posted by froglipz View Post
Memes in general are annoying!
And I knew you would not.

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Old 12-08-2016, 11:34 AM
 
Location: equator
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I knew you would hug me.




And I knew you would not.


You are so funny, Bus Man. I agree with you---I hate those Internet beseechers. But here's a hug anyway.
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Old 12-08-2016, 11:36 AM
 
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Originally Posted by bus man
First off, I'm not at all annoyed about giving or receiving actual hugs. I'm talking about the meme that floats around the Internet, like this
I agree that picture is stupid.......


This one is MUCH better (The 1 I always use)


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Old 12-08-2016, 01:20 PM
 
Location: Howard County, Maryland
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You are so funny, Bus Man. I agree with you---I hate those Internet beseechers. But here's a hug anyway.

The best hugs are the ones that you don't have to guilt the other person into giving you.
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Old 12-08-2016, 02:18 PM
 
Location: San Diego
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Everyone emotional levels and maturity is different...Don't like it, don't look at it.
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Old 12-08-2016, 02:51 PM
 
Location: SoCal again
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I didn't even know they exist until now. I agree, it is annoying.
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Old 12-09-2016, 12:58 AM
 
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Well I never really liked Facebook. I have one but I don't use it that much so it just seems like standard Facebook protocol to me. The whole site is just bragadocious.
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