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Old 10-15-2010, 08:04 AM
 
Location: Corydon, IN
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My brothers are all happily married but are always dreaming about "doing it" with coworkers, female friends, movie stars and women in magazines. In fact, they admit to me that they dream that their spouse is one of those sexy women on TV, not the fat, plain overweight woman they married. But because they love their wives, and have no chance getting the fancy woman of their dreams from TV or a magazine, they stay married to their plain looking boring wives.

Most women I know will never admit that they have dreams and a fantacy about men other than their husband. Myself, a woman, can admire a good looking man but I don't have dreams of "doing it" with him, do you?

I think it varies from person to person; some people are simply prone to being dissatisfied.

I'm a man and I've never spent time dreaming or imagining being with someone like that. I've imagined being AWAY from the person I was with, but not about being with fantasy women.
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Old 10-15-2010, 11:09 AM
 
Location: colorado
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My brothers are all happily married but are always dreaming about "doing it" with coworkers, female friends, movie stars and women in magazines. In fact, they admit to me that they dream that their spouse is one of those sexy women on TV, not the fat, plain overweight woman they married. But because they love their wives, and have no chance getting the fancy woman of their dreams from TV or a magazine, they stay married to their plain looking boring wives.

Most women I know will never admit that they have dreams and a fantacy about men other than their husband. Myself, a woman, can admire a good looking man but I don't have dreams of "doing it" with him, do you?

Damn straight..I fantasize about Oliver Martinez..
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Old 10-15-2010, 11:41 AM
 
Location: Back in the gym...Yo Adrian!
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I'm sure 95% of married men and women have fantasized about sex with someone else at some point in their marriage...the other 5% are liars!
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Old 10-15-2010, 11:46 AM
 
Location: Between Philadelphia and Allentown, PA
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Damn straight..I fantasize about Oliver Martinez..
Oh girl, same here! That man is SOOO effin' hot! Mmmm... mmm... good.
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Old 10-15-2010, 11:51 AM
 
Location: Corydon, IN
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I'm sure 95% of married men and women have fantasized about sex with someone else at some point in their marriage...the other 5% are liars!

Not sure if it qualifies; I've certainly fantasized about past lovers when I've found myself in a bad place in a relationship, so perhaps under your definition that qualifies. While I'm GOOD with a relationship, I tend to fantasize about the one I'm with and try to make those fantasies come true. Once that's passed, I tend to revert to the past.

Hmm... come to think of it, you could be right.
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Old 10-15-2010, 11:55 AM
 
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I'm sure 95% of married men and women have fantasized about sex with someone else at some point in their marriage...the other 5% are liars!
i agree
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Old 10-15-2010, 12:29 PM
 
Location: Clayton, MO
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My brothers are all happily married but are always dreaming about "doing it" with coworkers, female friends, movie stars and women in magazines. In fact, they admit to me that they dream that their spouse is one of those sexy women on TV, not the fat, plain overweight woman they married. But because they love their wives, and have no chance getting the fancy woman of their dreams from TV or a magazine, they stay married to their plain looking boring wives.

Most women I know will never admit that they have dreams and a fantacy about men other than their husband. Myself, a woman, can admire a good looking man but I don't have dreams of "doing it" with him, do you?
Yes.
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Old 10-15-2010, 12:49 PM
 
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Shucks. All MrsCPG has to do is watch a John Cusack movie. She says I look just like him.
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Old 10-15-2010, 12:53 PM
 
Location: NE CT
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It's human nature to fantasize sexual liasons and to deny it is merely self denial. Just because you fantasize doesn't mean you would do it. What's the big deal?
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Old 10-15-2010, 03:42 PM
 
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I don't think the average married woman have fantasies of "doing it" with a man they know the same way that a man does about women they know. Most women are attracted to the good looking man in the next office but are not thinking about him in a sexual way. But men are always thinking about having sex with hot women they know. Right?

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I'm sure 95% of married men and women have fantasized about sex with someone else at some point in their marriage...the other 5% are liars!
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