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Old 11-03-2010, 06:50 PM
 
Location: New Orleans, LA
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I'm a 23 year old Male by the way.

Like lets say that if I see someone at work such as a beatiful nice woman and I want to be with her in the future and sometimes I fantasize or sexually fantsize about her, but I know the difference between Reality and Fiction and I do treat women with respect.

Is it alright or is it bad?

But, sometimes i think of the sexually things about her as a fanatsy which i don't know if it's either wrong or not so i just fantasize about someone else instead of her so i would not disrespect her, even though i don't and wouldn't act upon my fantasy i still feel like i disrespect her by fantasizing about her sexually which is why i rather fantasize about someone like Beyonce or Tara Banks for example.

I'm also a Virgin by the way, and I want to keep it that way until I'm married with the person(Woman) that I really want to be with.
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Old 11-03-2010, 06:52 PM
 
Location: Massatucky
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nice
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Old 11-03-2010, 06:57 PM
 
Location: DFW
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You are a 23 year old healthy male. It's OK to fantasize.

Fantasy is good as long as you realize that's what it is. You'd be surprised all the people we guys have had sex with and they don't know it.
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Old 11-03-2010, 06:58 PM
 
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Thoughts are not actions.
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Old 11-03-2010, 10:43 PM
 
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fantasizing is not disrespectfull' thogh i do think that you should consider joining the real world
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Old 11-03-2010, 10:55 PM
 
Location: SXSW
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Why would it be wrong? Are you religious?
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Old 11-03-2010, 10:57 PM
 
Location: Texas
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Yes, it's fine. It's fine now. It's fine when you're married. You can THINK whatever you want.
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Old 11-03-2010, 11:45 PM
 
Location: Lowell, MA
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Default Is is alright to fantasize about someone I want to be with as long as I know dif between

Yes of course it is .....

I don't know anyone who hasn't fantasized sometime in there life ....

I was also a virgin until I met him, it was love at first sight. Just be with the one you love not the woman you work with, this would be disrespectful to both of them .

As for now, fantasize all you want about her, but keep it in the real world. If you find yourself losing reality seek professional help but it sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders .

Good luck in finding a partner....

Hope
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Old 11-03-2010, 11:57 PM
 
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I fantasise about a married man almost on a daily basis.

I would never act on it.

It excites me.
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Old 11-04-2010, 12:03 AM
 
Location: Southern California
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I'm a 23 year old Male by the way.

Like lets say that if I see someone at work such as a beatiful nice woman and I want to be with her in the future and sometimes I fantasize or sexually fantsize about her, but I know the difference between Reality and Fiction and I do treat women with respect.

Is it alright or is it bad?

But, sometimes i think of the sexually things about her as a fanatsy which i don't know if it's either wrong or not so i just fantasize about someone else instead of her so i would not disrespect her, even though i don't and wouldn't act upon my fantasy i still feel like i disrespect her by fantasizing about her sexually which is why i rather fantasize about someone like Beyonce or Tara Banks for example.

I'm also a Virgin by the way, and I want to keep it that way until I'm married with the person(Woman) that I really want to be with.
Why are you asking this question again?

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Originally Posted by Blackandgold51 View Post

I'm a 23 year old Male by the way.

Like lets say that if I see someone at work such as a beatiful nice woman and I want to be with her in the future and sometimes I fantasize or sexually fantsize about her, but I know the difference between Reality and Fiction and I do treat women with respect.

Is it alright or is it bad?

But, sometimes i think of the sexually things about her as a fanatsy which i don't know if it's either wrong or not so i just fantasize about someone else instead of her so i would not disrespect her, even though i don't and wouldn't act upon my fantasy i still feel like i disrespect her by fantasizing about her sexually which is why i rather fantasize about someone like Beyonce or Tara Banks for example.

I'm also a Virgin by the way, and I want to keep it that way until I'm married with the person(Woman) that I really want to be with.
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