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so me and my bf mostly are in a relationship because we both love art and board sports and just being outside hanging out with friends.
but once we were dating for a few months he changed alot and blamed most of his actions with his ex which he has started comparing me to and its quite annoying even when he calls her a ***** then goes off comparing me to her.
his ex: basically she was way sluttier then me which he liked but thats what led to her cheating on him and them breaking up
his insecurity: he rarely lets me go home to my house i spend most hours/days with him or in the same house/area. he gets all worried and stuff when im not in basically reaching distance to him thinking im out with another guy cheating which i find totally wrong thing to do. i cant talk on the phone with him without freaking out even if im in the same room of my parents he still thinks im giving some guy oral saying he hears sucking noises over the phone and i have even gotten different phones and he still says he hears them when its probally just noises in his head
sex: i personally not a big fan of it it just hurts me most of the time and i cant stand it unless its like once/twice a week but he wants it when ever hes hard which is like 3 times a day and all he does is mope and blame me for not being a good girl friend for not pleaseing him each time hes hard even if he caused it by watching porn
right now i have no control of it it has gotten much worse since i left my car at my uncles to get fixed but since my bf wont take me home or take me to look for a job i feel like a sex slave insted of a girlfriend and i have no clue what to do
so me and my bf mostly are in a relationship because we both love art and board sports and just being outside hanging out with friends.
but once we were dating for a few months he changed alot and blamed most of his actions with his ex which he has started comparing me to and its quite annoying even when he calls her a ***** then goes off comparing me to her.
his ex: basically she was way sluttier then me which he liked but thats what led to her cheating on him and them breaking up
his insecurity: he rarely lets me go home to my house i spend most hours/days with him or in the same house/area. he gets all worried and stuff when im not in basically reaching distance to him thinking im out with another guy cheating which i find totally wrong thing to do. i cant talk on the phone with him without freaking out even if im in the same room of my parents he still thinks im giving some guy oral saying he hears sucking noises over the phone and i have even gotten different phones and he still says he hears them when its probally just noises in his head
sex: i personally not a big fan of it it just hurts me most of the time and i cant stand it unless its like once/twice a week but he wants it when ever hes hard which is like 3 times a day and all he does is mope and blame me for not being a good girl friend for not pleaseing him each time hes hard even if he caused it by watching porn
right now i have no control of it it has gotten much worse since i left my car at my uncles to get fixed but since my bf wont take me home or take me to look for a job i feel like a sex slave insted of a girlfriend and i have no clue what to do
his ex: basically she was way sluttier then me which he liked but thats what led to her cheating on him and them breaking up
Slutty implies noncommital sex with multiple partners. Why would someone like this quality in a steady girlfriend?
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his insecurity: he rarely lets me go home to my house i spend most hours/days with him or in the same house/area. he gets all worried and stuff when im not in basically reaching distance to him thinking im out with another guy cheating which i find totally wrong thing to do. i cant talk on the phone with him without freaking out even if im in the same room of my parents he still thinks im giving some guy oral saying he hears sucking noises over the phone and i have even gotten different phones and he still says he hears them when its probally just noises in his head
There's paranoid, then there's paranoid. This is paranoid.
Hilarious though. This may be POTD on the strength of that excerpt alone.
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sex: i personally not a big fan of it it just hurts me most of the time and i cant stand it unless its like once/twice a week but he wants it when ever hes hard which is like 3 times a day and all he does is mope and blame me for not being a good girl friend for not pleaseing him each time hes hard even if he caused it by watching porn
Is the guy hung like Tiger Woods? Or is he not giving you enough foreplay? Sex shouldn't hurt a chick after the first few times.
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right now i have no control of it it has gotten much worse since i left my car at my uncles to get fixed but since my bf wont take me home or take me to look for a job i feel like a sex slave insted of a girlfriend and i have no clue what to do
so me and my bf mostly are in a relationship because we both love art and board sports and just being outside hanging out with friends.
but once we were dating for a few months he changed alot and blamed most of his actions with his ex which he has started comparing me to and its quite annoying even when he calls her a ***** then goes off comparing me to her.
his ex: basically she was way sluttier then me which he liked but thats what led to her cheating on him and them breaking up
his insecurity: he rarely lets me go home to my house i spend most hours/days with him or in the same house/area. he gets all worried and stuff when im not in basically reaching distance to him thinking im out with another guy cheating which i find totally wrong thing to do. i cant talk on the phone with him without freaking out even if im in the same room of my parents he still thinks im giving some guy oral saying he hears sucking noises over the phone and i have even gotten different phones and he still says he hears them when its probally just noises in his head
sex: i personally not a big fan of it it just hurts me most of the time and i cant stand it unless its like once/twice a week but he wants it when ever hes hard which is like 3 times a day and all he does is mope and blame me for not being a good girl friend for not pleaseing him each time hes hard even if he caused it by watching porn
right now i have no control of it it has gotten much worse since i left my car at my uncles to get fixed but since my bf wont take me home or take me to look for a job i feel like a sex slave insted of a girlfriend and i have no clue what to do
LOL thanks shug your little story really brightened up my day.
Leave him already! And get checked out by a doctor as to why sex hurts ... weird
Slutty implies noncommital sex with multiple partners. Why would someone like this quality in a steady girlfriend?
GAH i hate this ignorate belief that having sex with multiple people should somehow label you to be some low piece of ****. People need to realize that not everyone is into only having sex with 1-2 people in their lives, and stop the practice of **** shaming.
GAH i hate this ignorate belief that having sex with multiple people should somehow label you to be some low piece of ****. People need to realize that not everyone is into only having sex with 1-2 people in their lives, and stop the practice of **** shaming.
Are you serious? I'm not shaming anyone. Have you read any of my other posts? I crack as many chicks as it takes. I was just giving the accepted cultural definition of the word "slutty" along with what I thought was a common sense assumption that IF someone was looking for a STEADY girlfriend (which I'm not), that is not a quality they would look for.
mockingburd....time to take controll of your OWN life.....unless you`re physically disabled in some big way, you really don`t need your boyfriend to take you looking for a job....nor to your house....you can walk, catch a bus, taxi if you can afford it....it`s not up to him to make your life better....he`s just using you, and you`re letting him.
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