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Old 02-11-2011, 08:38 PM
 
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I always find strip clubs hilarious. I give you money, you give me a crappy dance that you don't want to do. I've always seen through the facade, and I just can't get over the fact it's a huge scam. It's like, why would you go to a restaurant and then not eat?
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You always seen through the facade? Really?

Sex is available at various strip clubs, or you can arrange to meet up with girls after their shift.

Also, I use to know a guy who worked for a cleaning company that cleaned a well known strip joint every night and they use to find used condoms in the trash.
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Old 02-11-2011, 08:39 PM
 
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No, no they don't, not in the way women who sell sex upfront do; and it's for that reason as to why sex workers have so many customers, many who are also married.
True, ugly men don't get hit on or flirted with often .
Paying for 'fake' attention is an option as long as you remain in your fantasy world. It's a compromise but realistic.

This is exactly why some women think a man who gets hooked on this has a big L (loser) on his forehead. You can't get it in real life so why should I want you? I see tons of unattractive couples and they seem quite happy. But they might be smart or have a personality. You know, some other attractive qualities that got them together. They may even have incredible sex.

Looks like the op is hooked already. Just check out info on std's before you do something you'll regret later.

And Himain, not ALL strippers are stupid whores but most are. If you were in the biz you'd know that too.
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Old 02-11-2011, 08:40 PM
 
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Can't lie though I get a laugh out of men thinking these women actually "like" them when they talk to them.
I say the the same thing when I think of marriage.
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Old 02-11-2011, 08:45 PM
 
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Paying for 'fake' attention is an option as long as you remain in your fantasy world. It's a compromise but realistic.
It's no difference in the general dating world.

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Looks like the op is hooked already. Just check out info on std's before you do something you'll regret later.
It's no difference in the general dating world.
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Old 02-11-2011, 08:55 PM
 
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as a person who sold cars to many strippers while i was in the car business, i will say this.

They all have mental issues. Which leads to drug habits. Which leads to prostitution. Which leads to them becoming single mothers.

They more often than not contract std's.

They make a boatload of money, but the money they make is short lived due to the fact that they generally lose their "charm" quickly.

The hollywood vision of young women working their way through college is a fantasy.

I haven't been to a strip club in 30 years.
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Old 02-11-2011, 09:01 PM
 
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I just get the impression that the actual clubs themselves are icky and gross..
Some strip clubs are nicer then peoples homes as they cater to wall paid business men. Other clubs for the blue collar workers//poor men are can be dirty gross clubs with rats running around. It all depends on where you go and how much money you want to spend.
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Old 02-11-2011, 09:09 PM
 
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I dont htink you should go back. You spent WAYY too much money. Your gonna develop a vice and be broke and tortured by it for the rest of your life. Spend money on dressing better, going to more social events, and on nice dates.
I disagree. If a man is horny he should spend his money towards the most simple way to relieve himself.

Dressing up, taking random girls out to dinner, trying to be the nice guy, and going to social events is fake, it's frustrating, and it's not being honest with the woman whom you are courting.

Screw a date if you want to see a naked chick. Dates are reserved if you're looking to get married, you want children, or you're looking for general companionship.
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Old 02-11-2011, 09:14 PM
 
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I pity you calicali01. Where did it go all wrong?
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Old 02-11-2011, 09:15 PM
 
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i pity you calicali01. Where did it go all wrong?
lol!!!
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Old 02-11-2011, 09:17 PM
 
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Point blank, many regular women are anti sex, or only use sex to get what want at a particular moment (ie., Marriage, A vacation, kids).
HAHAHAHA!!!!! Best post so far. LMAO. I wonder who these 'many' women are who use sex to get vacations or marriage. I certainly don't know them!
Most women I know are as (or more) into it than their men!
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