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Old 02-21-2011, 02:38 PM
 
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Suppose your boyfriend asks you to have sex once per day but you're only willing to do it a few times per week. Would you be mad if he watches porn to relieve his urges on days when you're not having sex?
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Old 02-21-2011, 02:43 PM
 
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I have sex as much as time allows. Multiple times a day if I get the chance, but in the event I'm somehow unable to I would not mind at all if my bf/so watched porn.
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Old 02-21-2011, 02:43 PM
 
Location: Where Dance Music comes first
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Suppose your boyfriend asks you to have sex once per day but you're only willing to do it a few times per week. Would you be mad if he watches porn to relieve his urges on days when you're not having sex?
lmao, you always deliver. Pun intended.
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Old 02-21-2011, 02:43 PM
 
Location: My Private Island
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Suppose your boyfriend asks you to have sex once per day but you're only willing to do it a few times per week. Would you be mad if he watches porn to relieve his urges on days when you're not having sex?
Not at all. Can I watch?
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Old 02-21-2011, 02:57 PM
 
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What is with all the porn threads? LOL

I do not now, nor have I ever, given a crap about porn. Watch away. Ditto girlie magazines, crushes on female celebs, etc. Who the hell cares?
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Old 02-21-2011, 03:09 PM
 
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Well I say each to his own, but what does enjoying porn have to with not getting enough? If a guy is into porn, he is still going to enjoy it and himself every chance he gets even if is getting it good and plenty. I don't have a problem with, but I don't have a problem with chics who do either.
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Old 02-21-2011, 03:45 PM
 
Location: NW Indiana
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Well I say each to his own, but what does enjoying porn have to with not getting enough? If a guy is into porn, he is still going to enjoy it and himself every chance he gets even if is getting it good and plenty. I don't have a problem with, but I don't have a problem with chics who do either.
Same here. I don't understand why anyone feels threatened by a partner's looking at porn. It's harmless, unless someone is totally obsessed with it. That would go for any obsession, though, not just porn.

I realize it's not everyone's cup of tea, but watching porn together can add some spice to a relationship!
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Old 02-21-2011, 03:46 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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Suppose your boyfriend asks you to have sex once per day but you're only willing to do it a few times per week. Would you be mad if he watches porn to relieve his urges on days when you're not having sex?
I`m assuming this goes for married couples as well..
So, yeah. Porn would not be welcomed in my home..to satisfy his "urges." (Not that he wouldn`t do it anyway, when I wasn`t lookin`)
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Old 02-21-2011, 03:53 PM
 
Location: Los Angeles
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Same here. I don't understand why anyone feels threatened by a partner's looking at porn. It's harmless, unless someone is totally obsessed with it. That would go for any obsession, though, not just porn.

I realize it's not everyone's cup of tea, but watching porn together can add some spice to a relationship!
I definitely agree
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Old 02-21-2011, 03:56 PM
 
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A relationship is about compromise. A healthier solution would be to discuss the possibility that she may need to do it a bit more than she would like, and you a bit less. I think it's better for the relationship to try to get sexual needs met within the relationship, rather than by going outside of it.

I don't think porn is the answer to differing levels of interest. Watching porn to relieve your urges is just one step away from going to a hooker. It's still using another person to satisfy yourself.
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