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Old 03-25-2011, 11:15 AM
 
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Hey guys is it true men always want to or think about nailing their female buddies I am talking about the friends without benefits
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Old 03-25-2011, 11:18 AM
 
Location: Reno, NV
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Always? No, definitely not. With the ones who are attractive, the thought may idly cross my mind now and then, but it's not something I'd act on. (I assume that you are referring to sex, and not carpentry?)
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Old 03-25-2011, 11:20 AM
 
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we may not always think about it, but certainly if we are not in a relationship and the opportunity arises(say 2AM after a night of drinking) most would do it.
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Old 03-25-2011, 11:21 AM
 
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I have guys who are just my friend. I don't think they are sexually attracted to me and I am not sexually interested either. I happen to be watching Billy Crystal in "When Harry met Sally" and he said friendship between men and women are impossible especially if a guy finds the girl attractive. Even if they are just friends the guy is thinking about nailing her. Sally (Meg Ryan) asks then is it possible to be friends if the guy does not find u attractive. Harry (Billy Crystal) says no guys pretty much think or want to nail them too. I got to wondering if that is true in real life??? Ladies and gentlemen please tell me what u think)
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Old 03-25-2011, 11:25 AM
 
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If I'm friends with a woman, then I definitely have no interest in nailing, and that's exactly why I have only one legit female buddy.
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Old 03-25-2011, 11:26 AM
 
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Always? No, definitely not. With the ones who are attractive, the thought may idly cross my mind now and then, but it's not something I'd act on. (I assume that you are referring to sex, and not carpentry?)
Definitely sex and not a carpenter's task? So if the female who is ur good friend is not attractive u would not even consider fantasizing about sexually? And u would not go so far as to nail ur attractive friend even if the opportunity presented it self?
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Old 03-25-2011, 11:40 AM
 
Location: Reno, NV
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Definitely sex and not a carpenter's task? So if the female who is ur good friend is not attractive u would not even consider fantasizing about sexually? And u would not go so far as to nail ur attractive friend even if the opportunity presented it self?
As I said, occasionally I would think about it if I'd normally be attracted. If not attractive, then no, I wouldn't even fantasize about it as it would do nothing for me.

If I were not in a relationship, and the friend was mutually interested, then it could possibly go somewhere. However, they are probably "just" friends for one of two reasons: I'm already in a relationship, or, they are not relationship material. While I have no issues with having a FWB, it would have to be mutually agreeable with mutual boundaries, and we'd still have to find each other attractive physically.
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Old 03-25-2011, 11:51 AM
 
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I have guys who are just my friend. I don't think they are sexually attracted to me and I am not sexually interested either. I happen to be watching Billy Crystal in "When Harry met Sally" and he said friendship between men and women are impossible especially if a guy finds the girl attractive. Even if they are just friends the guy is thinking about nailing her. Sally (Meg Ryan) asks then is it possible to be friends if the guy does not find u attractive. Harry (Billy Crystal) says no guys pretty much think or want to nail them too. I got to wondering if that is true in real life??? Ladies and gentlemen please tell me what u think)
One thing to keep in mind is that the movie you're talking about is meant to entertain and provide laughs for the audience rather than being a serious study in psychosocial behavior.
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Old 03-25-2011, 12:05 PM
 
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One thing to keep in mind is that the movie you're talking about is meant to entertain and provide laughs for the audience rather than being a serious study in psychosocial behavior.
Yeah I know it is for entertainment, but why does it seem like it is really true? I know allot of a male/female friendships end up being a little more. I have seen it so much till I wonder how do u remain good friends without sex being at issue?
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Old 03-25-2011, 12:07 PM
 
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As I said, occasionally I would think about it if I'd normally be attracted. If not attractive, then no, I wouldn't even fantasize about it as it would do nothing for me.

If I were not in a relationship, and the friend was mutually interested, then it could possibly go somewhere. However, they are probably "just" friends for one of two reasons: I'm already in a relationship, or, they are not relationship material. While I have no issues with having a FWB, it would have to be mutually agreeable with mutual boundaries, and we'd still have to find each other attractive physically.
I totally understand what u r saying here... And thank u for the lesson. I appreciate it.
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