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I don't know if I'm over-reacting or if it's my pregnant hormones lol. Anyways my boyfriend of over two years has been deleting his iPhone Internet history every time I see him, which isn't very often because he works out in the oil patch and he never used to. I caught him on adultfriendfinder and on porn sites so I said something to him about it and now he always deletes it. For the past few months I haven't said anything about it but it bugs me. I know he looks at other girls pictures on Facebook and just last week he was looking at pics of his ex, of course he denied it like I was some kind of idiot. I keep catching him doing things on the net and it always has to do with other girls.
I'm actually thinking of leaving because of this. I don't want to be with someone knowing that he has to hide something everytime I come around plus many other things too long to type.
I gather that while he's out in the oil patch, you're no-where near....is he gone for long periods of time??? I can understand a man wanting to look at some porn maybe...when you're not there.....but the adult friend finder, and him keeping pictures of an old ex to look at would ,I think, definately be cause for concern....I think that he's disrespecting you , and I don't know if I could trust someone like that....I mean ..why be so blatant about it??, and then feign innocense??.....Before you decide to leave though you show really tell him how you feel about it all....his response could be your deciding factor....good luck!!
I don't think the situation sounds very good and I agree with the advice on the last post. The fact that he's looking at a website like AdultFriendFinder seems to indicate that he's actively looking for someone new or that he plans on cheating on you if he hasn't already done so. I would definitely confront him with it and if his response is to not take your concerns seriously then I think it's time to dump him. I'm sure you could do better.
I don't think the situation sounds very good and I agree with the advice on the last post. The fact that he's looking at a website like AdultFriendFinder seems to indicate that he's actively looking for someone new or that he plans on cheating on you if he hasn't already done so. I would definitely confront him with it and if his response is to not take your concerns seriously then I think it's time to dump him. I'm sure you could do better.
Yes..no kidding! I`m sorry that you are finding all of this out about him, "after the fact."
What does pregnant hormones have to do with it? Are you pregnant by him? If you are you need to be thinking about how you can support yourself instead of worrying about what someone you're not married to, is looking at online. Looking at other girls is not against the law, and never will be in the future.
I don't know if I'm over-reacting or if it's my pregnant hormones lol. Anyways my boyfriend of over two years has been deleting his iPhone Internet history every time I see him, which isn't very often because he works out in the oil patch and he never used to. I caught him on adultfriendfinder and on porn sites so I said something to him about it and now he always deletes it. For the past few months I haven't said anything about it but it bugs me. I know he looks at other girls pictures on Facebook and just last week he was looking at pics of his ex, of course he denied it like I was some kind of idiot. I keep catching him doing things on the net and it always has to do with other girls.
I'm actually thinking of leaving because of this. I don't want to be with someone knowing that he has to hide something everytime I come around plus many other things too long to type.
I totally do NOT understand people asking these questions. If you are in a relationship with someone that you have already caught online on sites such as adultfriendfinder, and now you know they are hiding things from you....why are you not packing your bags????
I totally do NOT understand people asking these questions. If you are in a relationship with someone that you have already caught online on sites such as adultfriendfinder, and now you know they are hiding things from you....why are you not packing your bags????
I don't know if I'm over-reacting or if it's my pregnant hormones lol. Anyways my boyfriend of over two years has been deleting his iPhone Internet history every time I see him, which isn't very often because he works out in the oil patch and he never used to. I caught him on adultfriendfinder and on porn sites so I said something to him about it and now he always deletes it. For the past few months I haven't said anything about it but it bugs me. I know he looks at other girls pictures on Facebook and just last week he was looking at pics of his ex, of course he denied it like I was some kind of idiot. I keep catching him doing things on the net and it always has to do with other girls.
I'm actually thinking of leaving because of this. I don't want to be with someone knowing that he has to hide something everytime I come around plus many other things too long to type.
I wish you weren't already pregnant with his child because now you are stuck with him in your life even if you decide to break up.
I do not blame you for the way you feel, and I'm not pregnant so it can't be "pregnancy hormones".
It's the sneakiness that is especially troublesome. I just could not live with this kind of behavior - it's just so disrespectful. Best of luck getting him to understand that. I would strongly encourage you to communicate all your feelings about this to him and give him a chance to do the same. Maybe then you could bring this baby into a stable relationship.
I don't know if I'm over-reacting or if it's my pregnant hormones lol. Anyways my boyfriend of over two years has been deleting his iPhone Internet history every time I see him, which isn't very often because he works out in the oil patch and he never used to. I caught him on adultfriendfinder and on porn sites so I said something to him about it and now he always deletes it. For the past few months I haven't said anything about it but it bugs me. I know he looks at other girls pictures on Facebook and just last week he was looking at pics of his ex, of course he denied it like I was some kind of idiot. I keep catching him doing things on the net and it always has to do with other girls.
I'm actually thinking of leaving because of this. I don't want to be with someone knowing that he has to hide something everytime I come around plus many other things too long to type.
Adultfriendfinder? What are you, swingers? Hope you're not pregnant by the guy.
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