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Old 07-26-2011, 09:51 AM
 
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Have you ever been treated like that? what did you do? what do you suggest a different girl under the same treatment should do?
I mean he can like see a girl for 5 minutes and assume she's more worth everything to him than I. He acts like she's so perfect and she's so better than me. I have no right to put them down when I'm just stating simple facts in the way they act is not right. He defends them like they mean more to him than I do to him. He doesn't seem to care. I told him it hurt me when he's like that and he acts like I'm worrying over something stupid. We get along every other day, these days happen like once every two weeks or longer...
I try to discuss it with him later and he says I'm worried over "old history"
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Old 07-26-2011, 09:55 AM
 
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Dump him. That's what.

Source: Common Sense.
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Old 07-26-2011, 09:55 AM
 
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I got this one, ladies!

Dump him.

Edit to say, I was outdrawn.

Seriously, this guy is knowingly or not breaking you down for the purposes of control and manipulation... Not nice.
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Old 07-26-2011, 10:00 AM
 
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If a guy is being insensitive, inappropriate and uncaring when you object, you dump him.
If, on the other hand, you are being oversensitive, insecure and territorial, you work on your issues before getting involved with anyone else ... because being a jealous and needy girlfriend is a prime way to get yourself dumped.

If you are young, it might be difficult to tell the difference. I can't, from your story.
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Old 07-26-2011, 10:03 AM
 
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Went through this already. What did I do? Kick him out of my life. His words never match up with his action anyway so why bother.
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Old 07-26-2011, 10:29 AM
 
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Dump him. No one has the power to *make* me feel anything. If someone did not recognize my value, I would not hang out with them.
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Old 07-26-2011, 10:38 AM
 
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Have you ever been treated like that? what did you do? what do you suggest a different girl under the same treatment should do?
I mean he can like see a girl for 5 minutes and assume she's more worth everything to him than I. He acts like she's so perfect and she's so better than me. I have no right to put them down when I'm just stating simple facts in the way they act is not right. He defends them like they mean more to him than I do to him. He doesn't seem to care. I told him it hurt me when he's like that and he acts like I'm worrying over something stupid. We get along every other day, these days happen like once every two weeks or longer...
I try to discuss it with him later and he says I'm worried over "old history"
Are you picking on these girls before or after he acts like they are better than you?

Nobody likes a person that is insecure. If you are pointing out all the flaws of these so called "better" girls before he comments, well then I can see where he's coming from

If he's pointing out their assets first however, dump him. Why would you want to be with a man like that?

Last edited by *Sixy*; 07-26-2011 at 11:09 AM..
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Old 07-26-2011, 10:39 AM
 
Location: Tucson
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Have you ever been treated like that?
Not that I'm a girl per se, but no. It's not something I'd allow to happen and if it does happen, it'll happen only once.
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Old 07-26-2011, 10:52 AM
 
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Get rid of him. And don't even consider taking him back if he apologizes. He's already shown you who he is and what he thinks of you.

Don't ever let anyone treat you like that.
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Old 07-26-2011, 10:55 AM
 
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Have you ever been treated like that? what did you do? what do you suggest a different girl under the same treatment should do?
I mean he can like see a girl for 5 minutes and assume she's more worth everything to him than I. He acts like she's so perfect and she's so better than me. I have no right to put them down when I'm just stating simple facts in the way they act is not right. He defends them like they mean more to him than I do to him. He doesn't seem to care. I told him it hurt me when he's like that and he acts like I'm worrying over something stupid. We get along every other day, these days happen like once every two weeks or longer...
I try to discuss it with him later and he says I'm worried over "old history"
I'd give him a taste of his own medicine by dumping his arse.
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