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Old 08-09-2011, 03:47 PM
 
Location: New Orleans, LA
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It's rediculous how Society has made it to where it is now alright for a Male to cheat on his Female companion or Vice Versa. Like let's say that you have this person who is a Man that has been loyal to his Woman along with giving her all the respect and giving her what she wants, and later on in the relationship the Woman cheats on the man and some of her friends knows about it but short of like congratulate her like it's good to do that. And when that day comes when the guy finds out that his girlfriend(or wife) cheated on him and confronts her about it in front of her friends the friends around her laugh and make a joke about the situation than telling her that it was wrong, and without backing up the guy that had been cheated on. Why is it that most people these days thinks is good for someone to cheat on their companion? Same goes for the media like the movies, especially the R&B music today that has most artist talkin' about "I'm going to steal your man" or "I'm going to take your girl".
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Old 08-09-2011, 03:52 PM
 
Location: Fort Worth, TX
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Because society is losing its morals.
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Old 08-09-2011, 06:12 PM
 
Location: The D-M-V area
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If you don't buy it, they can't sell it.
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Old 08-10-2011, 01:18 AM
 
Location: Earth
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It's rediculous how Society has made it to where it is now alright for a Male to cheat on his Female companion or Vice Versa.
The former has always been true.
Only the latter is a more recent phenomenon.
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Old 08-10-2011, 10:14 AM
 
Location: New Albany, IN
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Who doesn't love scandal and drama...happening to someone else?

Look at what gets ratings on TV. Ratings=$$$ And I suppose (if I was into that kind of thing) posts about sex, cheating, etc. on Facebook get the most comments. It reminds me of "dead baby" jokes and the like, that the appeal of them is getting people to say, "OMG I can't believe you even said that/did that!"

The stupidest part of this phenomenon is other people not only getting involved with their so-called friends' troubled relationships (which I guess we can blame on posting their business all over the internet), but encouraging their "friends" to do the wrong thing. Maybe they feel good inside about other people looking bad, but I don't understand that concept so maybe I need someone to explain it to me.
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Old 08-10-2011, 10:35 AM
 
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It's rediculous how Society has made it to where it is now alright for a Male to cheat on his Female companion or Vice Versa.

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The former has always been true.
Only the latter is a more recent phenomenon
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Thats much more accurate. Thats why it is being noticed and labeled immoral.
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Old 08-10-2011, 11:09 AM
 
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It's rediculous how Society has made it to where it is now alright for a Male to cheat on his Female companion or Vice Versa. Like let's say that you have this person who is a Man that has been loyal to his Woman along with giving her all the respect and giving her what she wants, and later on in the relationship the Woman cheats on the man and some of her friends knows about it but short of like congratulate her like it's good to do that. And when that day comes when the guy finds out that his girlfriend(or wife) cheated on him and confronts her about it in front of her friends the friends around her laugh and make a joke about the situation than telling her that it was wrong, and without backing up the guy that had been cheated on. Why is it that most people these days thinks is good for someone to cheat on their companion? Same goes for the media like the movies, especially the R&B music today that has most artist talkin' about "I'm going to steal your man" or "I'm going to take your girl".
So what was her name, and how long were you two together?

Yes, I'm asking personal questions. The impersonal ones are just so uninteresting.
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Old 08-10-2011, 11:11 AM
 
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Why is her name important? trying to google her?
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Old 08-10-2011, 11:13 AM
 
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Remember Bill Clinton did it "many times and probably still does", lied about it, and is loved for it....Not to make this political but if our current so called leaders think its fine, so does the rest of society.

Character matters.
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Old 08-10-2011, 11:28 AM
 
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Because people are becoming increasingly idiotic and ignorant. As a society, we seem to be moving backward in terms of morality.
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