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Old 08-31-2011, 09:18 AM
 
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There's this one girl I know, I'm pretty jammed on her but my situation is strange. I have been dating a girl for awhile now; but we seldom get along and lately my feelings are transforming. I met this girl awhile ago and I cannot stop thinking about her, could this be the one. Just wondering some signs that a girl is interested; she has given me some indicators... She would stare at me from a distance at school and smile at me often. I hadn't talked to or seen this girl in over a year and one day I found her working at a place near my house. The first visit however was awkward because apparently she has a boyfriend and he works with her. The moment she smiled my way, he left the counter and went into the back. I came in for a second visit and spent a little while talking to her when he wasn't around ( I didn't act overly flirtatious however because even though I am in the situation I am in, I'm not trying to be particularly shady). She kept direct eye contact and I asked her lots of questions about herself. My question is.. what the hell is going on? Should I visit this girl? How do I know if what I'm doing is right?
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Old 08-31-2011, 09:22 AM
 
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The first visit however was awkward because apparently she has a boyfriend and he works with her.
Enough said.
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Old 08-31-2011, 09:30 AM
 
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You are not experienced enough to be in a complex situation involving a girl who is taken. There's no advice we can give you that will lead you to the answer you want.
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Old 08-31-2011, 09:30 AM
 
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Why don't you break up with your current girlfriend before you worry about the other girl.
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Old 08-31-2011, 09:41 AM
 
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Raging hetero- I'm taking a risk.. you know?

BKSnook- You are probably definitely one hundred percent right, however I am growing increasingly bold!

LCL111- I definitely need to take that step and get out of what I am in. As for the girl I am interested in, I'm just going to wait patiently and let things just play out. I have no plans for a third visit or anything; however I definitely can feel something.. not sure what it is, but oh well thank you for the advice.
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Old 08-31-2011, 10:26 AM
 
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The new girl likes you. But you at least need to be available for her. Cut the ties with the old girlfriend.

But you should know that even though this new girl is attracted to you, it doesn't mean she will leave her current boyfriend for you.
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