how long does the average couple wait to have sex? (marry, girl)
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well I still wouldn't give it up that fast. I still would have to know him well enough...
Keep the communication up and make it a priority and you should know if he is datable after a week or 2 and if you should keep him on the line with frequent BJ's with swallowing. If he is a weirdo or creep then cut him loose and move on. You will be surprised how fast time goes and you cant get it back, be as efficient as possible with your time. Stringing meaningless dates and peusdo relationships along for months and months is not a winning game plan, you dont get thoes months back.
Keep the communication up and make it a priority and you should know if he is datable after a week or 2 and if you should keep him on the line with frequent BJ's with swallowing. If he is a weirdo or creep then cut him loose and move on. You will be surprised how fast time goes and you cant get it back, be as efficient as possible with your time. Stringing meaningless dates and peusdo relationships along for months and months is not a winning game plan, you dont get thoes months back.
Okay, I just need to say that it is NOT necessary to to give BJ's and swallow to keep a man around. Really? WTF??? This girl is 18 years old...she's not some hard-up desperate old hag.
OP, do whatever you are comfortable with, no more and no less. If he doesn't like it, then move on to the next guy. Don't settle for less or sell yourself short because he has "needs". His "needs" do NOT take priority over your values and your own self-worth.
Have open communication with the man you are seeing. If you aren't comfortable getting physical and he is not receptive to waiting then he's not the one for you. That's the easier way to weed out those that are not compatible.
I'm not an idiot and sexual activity would be protected until after we married and of course we'd be tested before being active at all. I'm not concerned about getting pregnant that's not likely. I value my virginity it's just how I am. And like I said I still wouldn't be easy with that. I am modest in my own way. Like I said no shorter than 4 mo. To me this isn't even sex so idk why you guys are hung up on it but yea....
he's comfortable with my standards he's all religious odd thing is he's fine with dating me being a christian and all. We're both young and virgins so rigt now both of our standards are similar. Overall besides this we're hitting it off pretty well imo. So yeah....
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