If a woman is working bringing in the bacon to..the man should help in the house chores. (married, women)

[Romila]

I mean if today a woman is working to help out financially her man...
If they both work...to bring in the bacon the men should divide house chores...
THE END OF THE STORY...

Why I will tell you why:
Example I have a friend her and her husband met on the company the both today work at...
one day the boss ask her husband to do some errands if he finish he could go home early...
they both work from 9am to 5pm..
so he gets home at 1pm and stood watching tv and doing NOTHING...
she arrives home like 5:30ish.. saw that he couldn't even do the rice which is easy, fried a egg for them both and get the clothes out of the drier..okay
so she is all tired do all those things cook, clean what needed...and got the clothes out of the drier and folded them...

When it was night they were in bed...he turn to her..and he is like let make love...
She is like are you serious FIRST off i am pissed at you and DEAD TIRED...have sex with yourself...

for real...women today are independent and most guys try to take advantage of that...

I mean women have to work, and take care of the house, take care of the BIG baby being the (man) and then future wise the son he so much wanted...and then when she doesn't take care of herself doesn't look like she use to like the hot girl he married he DARE ask WHY...why honey you don't dress up and make your hair...honey you again weight...

hello.... like can he see she has to do it all...what about his beer belly she is not complaining...

man sometimes complain about some stupid things when there are serious things...to complain about like the fact he should help out..HELLO

[s.cann]

I would say, yes, he should help.

Why do you think he doesn't?

[ElysianEagle]

ok.

[mgt04]

hmm I guess since she grouped all men like that, I'll say then there's so many gold digging women out there its a wonder why men ever bother to get married

[tarragon]

Originally Posted by s.cann

I would say, yes, he should help.

Why do you think he doesn't?

I will tell you why he isn't helping, why should he when he knows SHE will end up doing it all anyhow!

[s.cann]

Originally Posted by tarragon

I will tell you why he isn't helping, why should he when he knows SHE will end up doing it all anyhow!

And?

[Red On The Noodle]

Originally Posted by tarragon

I will tell you why he isn't helping, why should he when he knows SHE will end up doing it all anyhow!

Exactly! If she comes home tired and there's no dinner started its time to say, I'm too tired to cook, let's go out or you go pick up something and bring it home while I take a nice long bath. Women are bad about putting other peoples needs before their own. It's the way we are wired...to be nurturing.

But sometimes in order to take care of your man, you need to take care of yourself first. The world will not end if dinner isn't on the table at a certain time.

[Serena Sattar]

They are both working from 9 to 5 so it would make sense to help out doing the chores.

[tarragon]

Originally Posted by s.cann

And?

And what?! I just gave my opinion. And...I agree with what you had said earlier, he should help!

[tarragon]

Originally Posted by Red On The Noodle

Exactly! If she comes home tired and there's no dinner started its time to say, I'm too tired to cook, let's go out or you go pick up something and bring it home while I take a nice long bath. Women are bad about putting other peoples needs before their own. It's the way we are wired...to be nurturing.

But sometimes in order to take care of your man, you need to take care of yourself first. The world will not end if dinner isn't on the table at a certain time.

Exactly! Perhaps the guy doesn't care as much what the house looks like as she does. Some people are like that, housework is low priority.