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I can honestly say that I have no problems at all romantically with girls who are described as "prudish" -- if fact, I even think it makes them more, not less attractive!
"Prudish" one possible way that a person can describe it -- another, more flattering term though, is "virtuous". Or even "innocent". Take your pick
(From a guy who genuinely likes virtuous / prudish girls )
I can see you didn't grow up around Amish women. My favorites were the ones who "hopped the fence"!
I think it could be part of it. I don't get dates, but I do get hit on quite a bit more when I'm in larger cities, but I've never actually lived in one. Of course, I also get leered at a lot more so I'm vey hesitant to take men up on their offers if they do hit in me. Usually its some random guy coming up to me and saying 'yo baby girl, what's yo name' which doesn't exactly make me think he's boyfriend material . I can't remember the last time a man came up to me that didn't reek of weed or alcohol and started a conversation that ended up in a date or numbers being exchanged.
Ok, thanks for clarifying.
I hope you can experience a larger city dating environment full time so you're not down on yourself. There are plenty of women who aren't considered attractive enough to even get the attention you receive from those type of men.
Is it just the timing of meeting a guy who happens to want a relationship at the time he meets a woman or is there something a woman does that makes a guy only reduce her to booty call status instead of pursuing a relationship? Not sure if that question makes sense to you but ya..I was wondering..
She finds you hot and finds out you are well off, she wants to marry you.
Ive had a few girls who were only interested in me after finding out what I do for a living or after seeing my car
that's bs..men with money will also just want sex just cause its easier for them than a full fledged relationship. not to mention..what you just said does not apply to me. guys in my age group don't tend to own very nice cars.
The theory of the woman being considered booty call if she dresses slutty is BS: consider that nude centerfolds get tons of proposals, and they're slutty.
I didn't read every page of this thread. But from the bit I did read, none of the men can give a real answer. Perhaps, they really don't know.
It has nothing to do with how 'easy' a woman may look or how she is dressed or even her figure. There have been guys who met me when I was dressed very conservatively, & they still placed me in the booty call status. I gave them no indication that I was interested in a sex only relationship. Some men just sexually objectify all women, regardless of whether they come across as easy or not.
The only thing that separates them is the woman's willingness to become a booty call... Nobody can turn you into a booty call if you don't respond to it.
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My favorites were the ones who "hopped the fence"!
