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Old 03-28-2012, 03:33 PM
 
Location: Midwest
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I had met this guy and he started asking me questions like

"do a lot of guys even talk to you?" "what type of men usually approach you?"

Why was he asking me this? Was he trying to figure out if most guys found me unattractive? It was like he was assessng my worth and he wasn't sure what that was
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Old 03-28-2012, 03:43 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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I had met this guy and he started asking me questions like

"do a lot of guys even talk to you?" "what type of men usually approach you?"

Why was he asking me this? Was he trying to figure out if most guys found me unattractive? It was like he was assessng my worth and he wasn't sure what that was
It's a type you don't wanna associate with. I can't believe the "even" part, if it's really a quote!
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Old 03-28-2012, 03:51 PM
 
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Why was he asking me this?
At the end of the day, the only answer that matters is his. But, since you're here... my motto has always been: if you wanna know what a person is about, find out who their friends are.
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Old 03-28-2012, 03:53 PM
 
Location: by the sea
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He sounds like a fool.
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Old 03-28-2012, 04:00 PM
 
Location: Midwest
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It's a type you don't wanna associate with. I can't believe the "even" part, if it's really a quote!
He asked me if I had a lot of guys approaching me or talking to me. Was he trying to figure out other guys thought I was ugly or hot?? I just thought that was strange
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Old 03-28-2012, 04:00 PM
 
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I had met this guy and he started asking me questions like

"do a lot of guys even talk to you?" "what type of men usually approach you?"

Why was he asking me this? Was he trying to figure out if most guys found me unattractive? It was like he was assessng my worth and he wasn't sure what that was
He's trying to feel you out whether or not you would be the type to say yes to his advances. Don't over think it.
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Old 03-28-2012, 04:02 PM
 
Location: Australia
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He sounds a bit creepy.

Maybe he's gay and is looking at you as a ***-hag, so he can come on to your handsome friends.
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Old 03-28-2012, 04:19 PM
 
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Weird guy and run as fast as you can in the other direction. If it involves that much thought initially? Value your time more and wait for the one that "gets" you and vice-versa.
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Old 03-28-2012, 06:34 PM
 
Location: U.S.A.
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Maybe he's gay and is looking at you as a ***-hag, so he can come on to your handsome friends.
Yeah, that's probably it...rofl
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Old 03-28-2012, 06:38 PM
 
Location: San Leandro
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I had met this guy and he started asking me questions like

"do a lot of guys even talk to you?" "what type of men usually approach you?"

Why was he asking me this? Was he trying to figure out if most guys found me unattractive? It was like he was assessng my worth and he wasn't sure what that was
He wants to figure out if he is your type and whether or not you are approachable. Most woman have a "type" of man they are looking for. Some times well into their 40's.

And most guys are not interested in fighting over a woman. A single woman who gets hit on all the time means way too much competition. It's no fun trying to get to know someone when 15 other dudes are trying to do the same thing. Plus woman who have guys fawning all over them 24/7 tend to be demanding as they have tons of guys who will do what ever they want.
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