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Old 04-01-2012, 06:59 PM
 
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I've been dating this really religious boy who's 3 years older than me for a year and 2 months (on the 14th) and there's this other boy who just moved from Arkansas in January and I was very attracted to him. He gave me his number in art class on friday, we haven't been able to stop texting since. Now he says hes falling for me and I feel like I'm falling for him to, but the boy I've been dating wants different things then I do in the future because he's religious and wants to live as a form of monk that's allowed to get married and he's super sensitive. I really like the new kid and want to be with him but I love the boy I've been with and I know it would be so wrong to leave cause he'd be so upset. What should I do? :'(
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Old 04-01-2012, 07:08 PM
 
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Be honest with yourself in regards to what YOU want. It will enable you to make the proper decision for YOU.
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Old 04-01-2012, 07:11 PM
 
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Why not play the field? You are too young to trap yourself in the committment arena.
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Old 04-01-2012, 07:12 PM
 
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If you and the new boy are already texting so much you're falling in love, be fair to your religious monk bf, and break up.
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Old 04-01-2012, 07:45 PM
 
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but the boy I've been dating wants different things then I do in the future
This is a very mature observation on your part.

This is all the reason you need to decide not to continue dating him. You don't need another boy in the wings in order to get you to make this decision.
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Old 04-01-2012, 07:48 PM
 
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Follow your heart and I think you know where your heart is leading you to.
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Old 04-01-2012, 08:55 PM
 
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You don't need another boy in the wings in order to get you to make this decision.

Sometimes it helps, lol.
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Old 04-01-2012, 09:49 PM
 
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I've been dating this really religious boy who's 3 years older than me for a year and 2 months (on the 14th) and there's this other boy who just moved from Arkansas in January and I was very attracted to him. He gave me his number in art class on friday, we haven't been able to stop texting since. Now he says hes falling for me and I feel like I'm falling for him to, but the boy I've been dating wants different things then I do in the future because he's religious and wants to live as a form of monk that's allowed to get married and he's super sensitive. I really like the new kid and want to be with him but I love the boy I've been with and I know it would be so wrong to leave cause he'd be so upset. What should I do? :'(
This only happened on friday.

Slow down.

Stop texting with that guy.

Just kill it.
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Old 04-01-2012, 10:10 PM
 
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Too soon. Wait to see if this connection with the new guy is realistic. Give it some time, don't be hasty.
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Old 04-01-2012, 10:15 PM
 
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Oh for Pete's sake. Break up with the monk already!
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