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Originally Posted by Boomshakalaka!
i ended up in bed with a man i just started seeing, he's great but...when we got naked, he was really hairy down below - i mean I've never been with a man this hairy before. The rest of his body's not hairy (he's Caucasian-american).
Is there a polite way of asking him to get a trim? I find it his hair a big turn off. He mentioned that his skin is super sensitive and he breaks out in pimples and/or gets very itchy down there if he shaves. The rest of his skin is amazing btw.
I was also wondering if there's any way of politely asking him to lose a few pounds - he's not obese, probably 20-30lbs overweight. I'm about 20lbs overweight too - but i've been going to the gym recently and my weight's started dropping. He said he had a gym membership a while ago, and he doesn't go anymore since his last one ran out. He also used to do boot camp too...
Any hints guys?
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What is your answer to this?
So YOU'RE the girl in question . You hairy people, gotta learn to stop being so darn hypocritical lol.
I ended up in bed with a woman I just started seeing, she's great but...when we got naked, she was really hairy down below - I mean I've never been with a woman this hairy before. The rest of her body's not hairy (she's Chinese-American).
Is there a polite way of asking her to get a trim? I find it her hair a big turn off. She mentioned that her skin is super sensitive and she breaks out in pimples and/or gets very itchy down there if she shaves. The rest of her skin is amazing BTW.
I was also wondering if there's any way of politely asking her to lose a few pounds - she's not obese, probably 20-30lbs overweight. I'm about 20lbs overweight too - but I've been going to the gym recently and my weight's started dropping. She said she had a gym membership a while ago, and she doesn't go anymore since her last one ran out. She also used to do yoga too...
You just started seeing her and already you want to change her?
While I could see eventually mentioning the preference for a trim down there, asking for a full shave when it hurts her is asking too much, regardless of how long you've known her.
Weight is another matter entirely. Asking someone to drop 20-30 pounds is asking for a major lifestyle change to suit your sense of aesthetics. What makes such a request ridiculous is not only that it's her body, not yours, you obviously were sufficiently attracted to her to ask her out at her current weight in the first place.
Honestly? OP, you sound self-centered and demanding. If you can't accept someone the way she is, do her a favor and go find someone else--although I suspect you'll find something to pick apart about every woman you date.
Seriously. As long as she is hygienically clean, is there something so wrong with a woman having pubic hair in 2012? It used to be something men liked. My hubby still does...
Seriously. As long as she is hygienically clean, is there something so wrong with a woman having pubic hair in 2012? It used to be something men liked. My hubby still does...
I am one of the few I guess who does not like the plucked chicken look of a shaved girl. Just because a girl keeps it natural doesn’t mean she’s dirty or hairy. Not because a girl shaves it means she is clean either. Mod cut: just too gross.
I ended up in bed with a woman I just started seeing, she's great but...when we got naked, she was really hairy down below - I mean I've never been with a woman this hairy before. The rest of her body's not hairy (she's Chinese-American).
Is there a polite way of asking her to get a trim? I find it her hair a big turn off. She mentioned that her skin is super sensitive and she breaks out in pimples and/or gets very itchy down there if she shaves. The rest of her skin is amazing BTW.
I was also wondering if there's any way of politely asking her to lose a few pounds - she's not obese, probably 20-30lbs overweight. I'm about 20lbs overweight too - but I've been going to the gym recently and my weight's started dropping. She said she had a gym membership a while ago, and she doesn't go anymore since her last one ran out. She also used to do yoga too...
Any hints ladies?
Just make sure to have some extra tooth floss lying around. Problem solved.
I ended up in bed with a woman I just started seeing, she's great but...when we got naked, she was really hairy down below - I mean I've never been with a woman this hairy before. The rest of her body's not hairy (she's Chinese-American).
Is there a polite way of asking her to get a trim? I find it her hair a big turn off. She mentioned that her skin is super sensitive and she breaks out in pimples and/or gets very itchy down there if she shaves. The rest of her skin is amazing BTW.
I was also wondering if there's any way of politely asking her to lose a few pounds - she's not obese, probably 20-30lbs overweight. I'm about 20lbs overweight too - but I've been going to the gym recently and my weight's started dropping. She said she had a gym membership a while ago, and she doesn't go anymore since her last one ran out. She also used to do yoga too...
Any hints ladies?
So you are saying that you are in a new relationship and want to tell this woman she is too hairy down below and too fat, right? Good luck with that! As far as her weight you could always encourage her to take walks with you or get involved in some sort of sport together, maybe make good eating choices and she may follow. About the hair, I don't know of a polite way to say that. You could say you have always been attracted to women with minimal hair down there or something along that line, but I don't know if I would direct it towards her.
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. You hairy people, gotta learn to stop being so darn hypocritical lol.
