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I care about attraction. I dated a guy who was average at best in the looks department, but oh boy...the chemistry was out of this world and the more I got to know him and the more I was around him the most attractive to me he became.
In general I think women care less about looks than men. I actually prefer an average looking guy. I stay away from those Abercrombie types. Too arrogant.
Women are less concerned about looks. I've lurked on mostly male dominated forums and the amount of discussion about what chick is the most hot is talked about more often than anything else; the men are so sexist and offensive it's sickening. IRL it's the same thing with men. If I brought up an acquaintance from work or school the first thing a guy ask is "does she look good? is her azz big?" Men even treat women based on how attractive they think they are.
I happen to think that I am 'cute/average' and once I did lower my standards last year and gave an ugly guy a chance, a fat one at that, and he acted as if he was too good for me.
Perhaps her picked up on YOUR attitude?
OP, I don't think that it's wrong to not date someone who we find unattractive. I do think the problems begin when looks are the ONLY thing that we look for.
I don't like the choices for the poll so I didn't pick either one, too limited....anyways, I have never met a woman nor a man that didn't care at all about someone else's looks. The only women I can imagine would feel this way are very desperate for a man in their lives, would do anything to have one, etc. Personally, I don't find it flattering when all the male care about is the woman looks and also don't find it flattering when they say "Oh, I don't care how the woman looks, I'll take anything." Neither is a compliment to her.
OP, I don't think that it's wrong to not date someone who we find unattractive. I do think the problems begin when looks are the ONLY thing that we look for.
No, he was the one who had the attitude. He looked like Biggie Smalls. he laid some ground rules and told me not to ever ask him for anything, not for a ride or some money. I never implied that I needed anything from him. He just told me that out of nowhere. After that I never answered his phone calls and when I saw him, he said 'what's up?" and I acted as if he didn't even exist. I can't stand men who treat women like shyt
Women are less concerned about looks. I've lurked on mostly male dominated forums and the amount of discussion about what chick is the most hot is talked about more often than anything else; the men are so sexist and offensive it's sickening. IRL it's the same thing with men. If I brought up an acquaintance from work or school the first thing a guy ask is "does she look good? is her azz big?" Men even treat women based on how attractive they think they are.
I happen to think that I am 'cute/average' and once I did lower my standards last year and gave an ugly guy a chance, a fat one at that, and he acted as if he was too good for me.
1. Didn't lower your standards as much as you thought.
2. Maybe guys put a little more into other things than you think. -- Maybe it's your personality that guys are completely turned off by.
1. Didn't lower your standards as much as you thought.
2. Maybe guys put a little more into other things than you think. -- Maybe it's your personality that guys are completely turned off by.
Maybe he was just an *******. I'm sick of people blaming women for men's ****ty behavior.
Maybe he was just an *******. I'm sick of people blaming women for men's ****ty behavior.
He probably was a jerk.
The thing is, you're sitting around here complaining about how men are so terrible, doing exactly what you hate. You are blaming men for women's sh*tty behavior. No one wants to date a debbie downer, I wouldn't care if you were a 10, the way you talk I wouldn't touch you (or any woman with that thought process) with a 10 foot pole.
The thing is, you're sitting around here complaining about how men are so terrible, doing exactly what you hate. You are blaming men for women's sh*tty behavior. No one wants to date a debbie downer, I wouldn't care if you were a 10, the way you talk I wouldn't touch you (or any woman with that thought process) with a 10 foot pole.
I'm sorry if you can't accept how shallow your gender is.
The thing is, you're sitting around here complaining about how men are so terrible, doing exactly what you hate. You are blaming men for women's sh*tty behavior. No one wants to date a debbie downer, I wouldn't care if you were a 10, the way you talk I wouldn't touch you (or any woman with that thought process) with a 10 foot pole.
Where did the poster blaming guys for gal's sh*tty behavior?
From my recollection she stated gals care less about looks and talked about how she did something she thinks most guys wouldn't, date someone she saw as less attractive, the result being he treated her like sh*t.
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Originally Posted by nyanna
Women are less concerned about looks. I've lurked on mostly male dominated forums and the amount of discussion about what chick is the most hot is talked about more often than anything else; the men are so sexist and offensive it's sickening. IRL it's the same thing with men. If I brought up an acquaintance from work or school the first thing a guy ask is "does she look good? is her azz big?" Men even treat women based on how attractive they think they are.
I happen to think that I am 'cute/average' and once I did lower my standards last year and gave an ugly guy a chance, a fat one at that, and he acted as if he was too good for me.
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Originally Posted by 14Bricks
For somebody who complains constantly about men not wanted you for looks, you are the biggest hypocrite.
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Originally Posted by nyanna
How does that make me a hypocrite? I was willing to go out with someone that I don't find physically attractive and see if my feelings would grow. I was willing to look deeper than the physical. Something most men don't always do. But he was such an ahole that I wasn't able to do that.
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Originally Posted by mochamajesty
Perhaps her picked up on YOUR attitude?
OP, I don't think that it's wrong to not date someone who we find unattractive. I do think the problems begin when looks are the ONLY thing that we look for.
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Originally Posted by nyanna
No, he was the one who had the attitude. He looked like Biggie Smalls. he laid some ground rules and told me not to ever ask him for anything, not for a ride or some money. I never implied that I needed anything from him. He just told me that out of nowhere. After that I never answered his phone calls and when I saw him, he said 'what's up?" and I acted as if he didn't even exist. I can't stand men who treat women like shyt
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Originally Posted by burgler09
1. Didn't lower your standards as much as you thought.
2. Maybe guys put a little more into other things than you think. -- Maybe it's your personality that guys are completely turned off by.
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Originally Posted by nyanna
Maybe he was just an *******. I'm sick of people blaming women for men's ****ty behavior.
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Where did the poster blaming guys for gal's sh*tty behavior?
