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I haven't "abandoned" them but I have left in as few as 20 minutes. One was a guy who I absolutely did not recognize from his photo -- a good 20 years older and about 8 inches shorter (he was actually shorter than me and I am not that tall).
The other also did not resemble his photograph and after 30 minutes of him talking non-stop about how his wife had left him after 20 years and he couldn't understand it . . . well, sorry, bud. I understood it and followed her example. . . .
I never walked out on a date...I just think that is completely disrespectful and I wouldn't want it done to me. I live by the Golden Rule.
As for virgins...I wouldn't care if he was a virgin, so long as he wasn't socially awkward. In my experience, when you get to the point where you are intimate with someone you still have to "teach" them how you like certain things, no matter how experienced they are.
I never walked out on a date...I just think that is completely disrespectful and I wouldn't want it done to me. I live by the Golden Rule.
As for virgins...I wouldn't care if he was a virgin, so long as he wasn't socially awkward. In my experience, when you get to the point where you are intimate with someone you still have to "teach" them how you like certain things, no matter how experienced they are.
Good point! I've been with virgins and experienced men and neither knew what I wanted or liked until I told them. Not every female likes or wants the same thing so in a sense you have to teach everyone. Also, don't forget how fun teaching can be
I never walked out on a date...I just think that is completely disrespectful and I wouldn't want it done to me. I live by the Golden Rule.
As for virgins...I wouldn't care if he was a virgin, so long as he wasn't socially awkward. In my experience, when you get to the point where you are intimate with someone you still have to "teach" them how you like certain things, no matter how experienced they are.
I'd prefer not to have to expereince a man fumbling to undo my bra before sex ever again, in my lifetime. Especially not by a 20+ year old. Awkward
Last edited by findly185; 06-08-2012 at 01:37 PM..
I never walked out on a date...I just think that is completely disrespectful and I wouldn't want it done to me. I live by the Golden Rule.
As for virgins...I wouldn't care if he was a virgin, so long as he wasn't socially awkward. In my experience, when you get to the point where you are intimate with someone you still have to "teach" them how you like certain things, no matter how experienced they are.
I think it depends. I would walk out if a guy has been disrespectful or made rude comments. Then why stay and continue to deal with his disrespect?
I recently cut all of my hair off and went on a first date with a guy who had known me when I had longer hair. I've known him for almost 5 years and he seemed like a nice guy. He told me during our date that he preferred women with long hair instead of short. Then WHY ask me out on a date?? Then he had been married and divorced with 2 kids by the age of 29. Weird.
And I had never known this for the 5 years I had known him. Like he was hiding something.
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Originally Posted by findly185
I'd prefer not to have to expereince a man fumbling to undo my brah before sex ever again, in my lifetime. Especially not by a 20+ year old. Awkward
I wouldn't mind dating a virgin. I think its cute! You can teach them the way you want since they haven't learned any tricks. I've never dated a male virgin. They're so rare nowadays.
Then do a strip tease, problem solved. Really there are ways out of many awkward situations. Just think outside the box.
Or I can date someone who is expereinced like myself
Avoiding the awkwardness can only go on for so long, eventually someone will have to teach him to take control. I'd prefer someone who was already in control.
Experience doesn't always equal good sex. I've had some "experienced" men where it was like watching paint dry
Expereinced means more than having thousands of partners.
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