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I've abandoned a date before. I was asked out by a girl in grad school once. Turns out when she showed up, she wanted to go on a date with 2 guys simultaneously. No, I'm not making the story up. I dropped the date immediately and walked away.
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Originally Posted by Ro2113
So if you're a virgin, you're pretty much screwed huh?
Its pretty normal, guys. Women dont want to date virgins, they want guys that are experienced. Welcome to the real world.
Very interesting...yet at the same time, if you were to reverse the situation, I seriously doubt a man would have any problems at all with dating a woman who is a virgin?
Why should it really make a difference either way?? After all, relationships are not just about only the "bedroom" component, right? I mean if there was a guy who say had the looks of say Brad Pitt and he was a genuinely nice person, but he also happened to be a virgin, would a woman really turn him down?
Very interesting...yet at the same time, if you were to reverse the situation, I seriously doubt a man would have any problems at all with dating a woman who is a virgin?
Why should it really make a difference either way?? After all, relationships are not just about only the "bedroom" component, right? I mean if there was a guy who say had the looks of say Brad Pitt and he was a genuinely nice person, but he also happened to be a virgin, would a woman really turn him down?
Of course men dont have a problem with it, a lot of men love virgins. Or the fairy-tale idea of virgins.
Most women want a mature, sexually experienced men (at least I do). I dont want to teach. I also dont want to figure out were sexually incompatible and waste my time. Sexual compatibility is high on my list. Second only to mentally compatible.
So if you're a virgin, you're pretty much screwed huh?
no. but the guys that are virgins should stop pretending that its such a highly moral and wonderful path to take. its the opposite. while they're at it, they could stop putting vajayjay on a pedestal, go get a hooker or knock down a few neighborhood hoodrats to gain some experience.
Very interesting...yet at the same time, if you were to reverse the situation, I seriously doubt a man would have any problems at all with dating a woman who is a virgin?
Why should it really make a difference either way?? After all, relationships are not just about only the "bedroom" component, right? I mean if there was a guy who say had the looks of say Brad Pitt and he was a genuinely nice person, but he also happened to be a virgin, would a woman really turn him down?
Men, would never have a problem dating a virgin woman. Men and women are different and we want different things from each other. If you ask an average man about his sex partners he will often overestimate the number while a woman would do exactly the opposite. its a double standard based on social expectations and conditioning we have all been through all of our lives. I dont care about bradd pitt or about speculating about his viriginity.
no. but the guys that are virgins should stop pretending that its such a highly moral and wonderful path to take. its the opposite. while they're at it, they could stop putting vajayjay on a pedestal, go get a hooker or knock down a few neighborhood hoodrats to gain some experience.
Yeah, that's real smart. Pick your poison: STD, possible pregnancy and you know what comes after that... and not just the ****ty diapers , police record for solicitation, or ALL of the above.
Back to topic... no, I have never abandoned or walked out on a date. Flat-out rude.
Last edited by Rabbitluvr; 06-08-2012 at 10:17 AM..
Agree. I went on a date with a guy in his late 20s who admitted he was a virgin..it's not so much that he was one but his entire behavior was "OMG I am a virgin, please don't hold it against me..whine whine whine...". He came across wimpy. I didn't give him a 2nd date, I wanted to date a man, not be his "first"..ick.
Perhaps he came across that way because he simply honestly wanted you to like him, but was just very shy and scared of being rejected by you, hence the nervous demeanor? As a fellow guy, I can pretty much guarantee you that the last thing he probably wanted to do was to intentionally appear as unappealing or unattractive to you.
I don't think the ladies always totally understand on an emotional level why guys act the way they do sometimes, when they like or care about a woman romantically. Some guys are all bravado, machismo, etc., and that's fine for the women who like that in men. But other guys can be more sensitive, you know? For sensitive guys, rejection can hurt very much; just as much as being hit physically -- the reason he came across as "overly wimpy" or "super-nervous" was not b/c he wanted to appear as "wimpy", but probably because he was trying to appeal to your more caring, feminine, compassionate, better side. He likely thought that by verbally expressing his virginity to you, you might understand his own personal situation and context better than if he had not mentioned it at all.
My whole point though is, and the saddest thing of all is, in reality, he probably just wanted you to like and care about him -- romantically, as a person, and as a fellow human being -- but his actions ended up having the exact opposite effect.
Men have feelings too...men can have their hearts broken just as easily as women do...and while they might not always admit it verbally, men want to be loved and cared about by women, just as much as women want to be loved and cared about by men. I don't understand why some women cannot see this, on a psychological level? Not every man is cut out emotionally to have a Jason Bourne or a James Bond kind of masculinity...some men are simply much more soft-hearted and sensitive by nature than that, on an emotional level...doesn't make them any less of a "man" though, in MHO...
Being a male virgin older than 20 years old is the worst thing in the world. All older male virgins should kill themselves because no woman will ever love them.
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Pick your poison: STD, possible pregnancy and you know what comes after that... and not just the ****ty diapers 
, police record for solicitation, or ALL of the above. 
