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Old 12-22-2012, 02:15 PM
 
Location: ATL
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A friend of mine has been "dating" this chick for several months. She told him last week that she would like to be celibate until she gets married. She wants to wait until she is married to have sex again. Now they have been sleeping with each other for months now. He told her that was cool and if she could respect his wishing of them going dutch in the future because he wanted to save his money for his future wife. She got mad….why is that?
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Old 12-22-2012, 02:17 PM
 
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A friend of mine has been "dating" this chick for several months. She told him last week that she would like to be celibate until she gets married. She wants to wait until she is married to have sex again. Now they have been sleeping with each other for months now. He told her that was cool and if she could respect his wishing of them going dutch in the future because he wanted to save his money for his future wife. She got mad….why is that?

Why do you care and how the hell should we know? That's between them. I suggest you mind your own business.
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Old 12-22-2012, 02:18 PM
 
Location: Chicago
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A friend of mine has been "dating" this chick for several months. She told him last week that she would like to be celibate until she gets married. She wants to wait until she is married to have sex again. Now they have been sleeping with each other for months now. He told her that was cool and if she could respect his wishing of them going dutch in the future because he wanted to save his money for his future wife. She got mad….why is that?
Probably because she thought he was being a smart ass--and I hope he was! Anyone who suddenly drops a celibate-until-marriage bomb after months of sleeping with someone is nuts. I hope he walked away, laughing.
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Old 12-22-2012, 02:21 PM
 
Location: Up in the air
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So, he only spends money on her in exchange for sex.
Interesting.

Regardless, it's none of your business and I think this is a made-up scenario based on the last thread you started re: engagement rings.
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Old 12-22-2012, 02:22 PM
 
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I think this is a made-up scenario based on the last thread you started re: engagement rings.
I suspect the same.
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Old 12-22-2012, 03:39 PM
 
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Doesn't make sense. Now I am celibate and yes will abstain from sex until marriage but I tell men upfront when this comes up. Then they either lose interest or they are looking for marriage too.
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Old 12-22-2012, 03:52 PM
 
Location: ATL
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Doesn't make sense. Now I am celibate and yes will abstain from sex until marriage but I tell men upfront when this comes up. Then they either lose interest or they are looking for marriage too.
Are you ok with him being celibate with his money until his married?
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Old 12-22-2012, 04:44 PM
 
Location: Albuquerque, NM
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Regardless, it's none of your business and I think this is a made-up scenario based on the last thread you started re: engagement rings.
Ya think?
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Old 12-22-2012, 04:45 PM
 
Location: Albuquerque, NM
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Are you ok with him being celibate with his money until his married?


You're going to get a lot of flack for comparing it to sex, but it's an interesting question
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Old 12-22-2012, 04:52 PM
 
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Probably because she thought he was being a smart ass--and I hope he was! Anyone who suddenly drops a celibate-until-marriage bomb after months of sleeping with someone is nuts. I hope he walked away, laughing.
It's understandable if she had a religious conversion. I have a friend who was living with someone when she became a born again Christian. She moved out shortly afterwards. They continued to date and got engaged and married within a year or so.

If she's doing it to tease him or force him to marry her, that's another story.
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